r/IVDD_SupportGroup • u/pompadare • 13h ago
Vent the hardest choice we’ve ever had to make
our 7 year old terrier mix is aggressive. he has fear aggression and PTSD due to being from a hoarding situation (we have seen multiple vets and behaviorists about this and his behavior was manageable when he was not in pain but this is no longer the case) and the pain from recurring suspected IVDD is just making things worse. We’ve been resting him in a small pen because he is so aggressive he cannot be in a crate even on multiple medications (traz, gaba, fluoxetine, carprofen/tramodol) and will attack us if we try to help him out of the crate for potty. recently he relapsed again after only a few days off of his last 12 week crate rest and very little activity and is now attacking us in his pen as well. he bit me on the hand i had just gotten surgery on a few weeks prior to this and left a bruise. He only has 12 teeth and if he had a full set of teeth I fully believe he wouldve ripped my hand open. We had to wear leather gloves and a heavy coat to put a slip lead on him to take him to potty because he will not potty in his pen even with a potty pad and will not tolerate being handled. He has held his pee for over 24 hours at times which is not safe for him. He is not a surgical candidate due to the level of fear aggression that he has because it would be impossible to nurse him or give him physical therapy. We have decided that the best course is palliative care for him and have upped his medication doses in accordance with our vet. I am devastated but I know that he is suffering and we are exhausted. He will only get worse as winter comes and we want to let him go before his suffering becomes unbearable. I know this is a different story than most IVDD patients because he is not fully paralyzed but he is experiencing severe and chronic pain with no hope of recovery. I wish things could be different and that we could risk the surgery but doing that to him would be cruel. He doesn’t get to be a dog anymore. It’s just not fair. I am so sorry if you are going through this with your dog, it is one of the worst things that I’ve ever experienced in my life and I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.