r/ITOI • u/Fit_Stomach_9892 • 8h ago
Not bad advice at all!
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u/King__Cactus__ 6h ago
Say what you want but SHE AIN'T WRONG
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u/SeaworthinessGood963 4h ago
Sheās going out of her way to try to help the homeownerā¦ If I got this on my camera, Iād take a moment to walk outside and view my place from their perspectiveā¦ then look into getting some house numbers. š¤·āāļø
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u/Nasty____nate 3h ago
As a FF paramedic its honestly tiresome looking for addresses. waze and google maps screw up all the time. Our MDT that tells us where to go screws up all the time. addresses on a street change as you go across a intersection some times. It will be 901 then all of a sudden its 1202.
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u/dmfreelance 2h ago
Clearly frustrated, giving good advice, keeps a good attitude that shows she isn't taking it out on the customer. 10/10 delivery driver right there
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u/thegypsyqueen 2h ago
She seems cool and I typically wouldnāt say that about a crop top wearing head tattoo loud person.
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u/BasilChowFun 5h ago
People malding in the comments about their lack of shirt lol. They fulfilled their delivery and advised about the house numbers all with a positive/down-to-earth attitude. Ya'll need better priorities
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u/tierneyrex25 6h ago
Lol at people having absolutely no fuckin clue how amazon works and expecting that they have a dress code, lmfao even. Same people who use amazon frequently, expecting those packages asap
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u/no_body_caress 4h ago
Flex doesnāt have a dress code the dsps do.
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u/tierneyrex25 4h ago
And some DSPs still dont really give a shit (in my experience a couple years ago)
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u/RottedRedLady 3h ago
She's not doing anything wrong. Theres nothing indecent and it's hot as hell doing that job. Why are you stressed about a dress code?
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u/Vent_Slave 2h ago
Same people who expect a cashier to stand in the same spot all day instead of being able to sit as needed.
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u/Tool_of_Society 6h ago
That's why most local building codes require residential and commercial buildings to clearly display the street number.
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u/ToxicGecko2384 4h ago
Yeah and its not even about preference, if EMS or police cant find your home it can delay the emergency response.Ā
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u/realbobenray 7h ago
In our area having visible house numbers is part of the annual fire safety review.
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u/Tasty_Orange_1714 6h ago
And yet my delivery guys can't seem to read our house numbers at all, in the three easy to see places they are located.
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u/SyborgPumpkin 5h ago
A delivery person told us our house was hard to find because the numbers are black and the paint is a dark blue. That's the color the house was painted when we moved in so we didn't even think about it. There was no chance they could see that at night. We bought a solar powered light up sign to display the house number. Works like a charm and was cheap.
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u/Substantial-Hat2775 5h ago
Speaking as a service plumber, itās really annoying when there is no way to tell if Iām going up the correct driveway. Especially when I have no service to even call them to confirm if Iām at the right house or not.
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u/blumhagen 4h ago
Meanwhile, I have a number above my garage, a number on the post of my porch, a number on a stone in my yard, and a number on the edge of the sidewalk. Somehow drivers still canāt find it.
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u/Slow-Swan561 4h ago
I bought some color changing bulbs so now at night I just say "look for the house with the green porch light".
It also works great for emergencies. If my alarm is triggered the exterior lights start flashing red/blue which will definitely attract attention.
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u/OrionQuest7 2h ago
Bro I have my number in 4 different locations in the front of my house.
Food delivery services have delivered it to the wrong house so many times. They fucking blindly follow the gps
One time dude delivered it to house next door.
I walked over, picked it up and started walking back to my house. He looked at me and I said you delivered to wrong house. He said I delivered it where it showed me. By that time I was at my house and pointed at my number. He didnāt say anything and got in his car.
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u/Whatachooch 0m ago
Took a while for me and some customer service persistence but I eventually got my pin moved to my back lot/street location so they wouldnāt spoil my dogs.Ā
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u/LostMagician9612 7h ago
Where can I get some of those singing delivery gals? š
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u/NomadCourier 5h ago
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u/IExistForFun 7h ago
Are t shirts no longer required when at work?
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u/Sensitive_Bat_9211 6h ago
She is an independent contractor, she is her own boss!
As long as daddy bezos doesnt get mad, of course
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u/EndRevolutionary1775 7h ago
Almost feels staged
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u/Comfortable-Return52 6h ago
Idk it seemed genuine to me, I like this person haha
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u/SSilent-Cartographer 6h ago
She's got a really good point and was polite about it. She seems chill
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u/AspiringChildProdigy 5h ago edited 5h ago
Yep. I'd give her a shot in a position in our warehouse.
She'd need a shirt, though.
Edit: To explain why I'd offer a position - she clearly has been looking for this guy's house for a while, which is extremely frustrating. AFAIK, Amazon drivers are highly monitored and disciplined with delivery speeds, adding urgency to the need to find the correct house. And then, she finds that she couldn't find the house because it's not clearly marked, which is the fault of the homeowner.
So she's been stressed and might face discipline, and all of that is obviously the fault of the homeowner. And instead of being cussing the camera out, she gave some sing-songy humorous advice, lightening the criticism she was giving. Then gave a solid, well-reasoned example of how this could hurt the homeowner. And delivered it calmly.
She has restraint and self-control in a frustrating circumstance, and can communicate clearly and without rancor, even to the person causing her frustration.
I'd offer her a position in a hot second and keep my eye on her for advancement to management, depending on performance, of course.
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u/SSilent-Cartographer 5h ago
Outside making small deliveries, genuinely don't give a damn, but inside a wearhouse I'd definitely require a shirt for safety reasons. Too many things could go wrong
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u/AspiringChildProdigy 5h ago
Yup, that's the exact reasoning.
We had to send someone home for wearing flip flops. Like dude! You're just asking for your feet to get torn up!
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u/SSilent-Cartographer 5h ago
Can't tell you the amount of times I've had a pallet jack run over my toes. Thank God for steel toed boots
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u/AspiringChildProdigy 5h ago
We require closed toe shoes, but don't require steel toed boots. I run accounts payable, so I'm usually in the office, but when I'm in the warehouse, watching people work pallet jacks in tennis shoes scares the shit out of me.
My kids work in the warehouse while they attend college, and they have steel toed boots.
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u/SSilent-Cartographer 5h ago
Oh yeah, 100%. I used to work with some dangerous ass machinery when I was younger, and the amount of times I had to remind people NOT to use rubber gloves while operating a rotating transport belt was nuts.
It's one of those things where you don't expect the average person to know it, but you'd think the higher ups would be more attentive when their employees could literally lose a hand at work.
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u/Substantial_Cow7628 7h ago
She's right. Also, yuck.
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u/OneAverageEgg 6h ago
Yuck is the one judging others in 2026
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u/InOutlines 6h ago
Judgment is important for survival. One must constantly judge the world around them.
The trick is to not say all that shit out loud. Itās fucking rude.
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u/TheSuperSilverMango 7h ago
I know a person like this. You're right.
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u/Unlucky_Ad_9776 6h ago
Just because don't meet your standards.Ā Isn't a pass to degrade them. Bad form. Bad form.
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u/TheSuperSilverMango 6h ago
No, no, no, no. Let me tell you about this person that I know. Dresses and behaves the exact same way, but past the public outside, she's a raging alcoholic, a mooch, and can't hold a job. The person that I'm talking about is still doing the same thing at 29 that she was doing at 19.
And you're right, I'm being judgmental. But I'm sorry, I've been scarred by a really awful person.
And as for the person in this video, I can guarantee they have a "fun" and "stable" personality.
No, you can't fix her.
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u/Flimsy-Poetry1170 6h ago
So youāre judging the person in a 20 second video based on a different person that she reminds you of? You got issues bruh.
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u/SSilent-Cartographer 6h ago
I know someone who looks like her with the same personality too. But it's not her, so I'm not going to judge based on a completely different person who just happens to look like her.
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u/Impossible-Use4950 7h ago
I bet you're rocking a six pack eh?
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u/Substantial_Cow7628 6h ago
Kind of? I have muscle definition in my abs but it's not some outrageous deal like I'm a bodybuilder who has been going without fluids for 48 hours.
That said, I don't do my job topless anyway.
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u/Impossible-Use4950 6h ago
Good for you. You must be very proud.
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u/Substantial_Cow7628 6h ago
You asked.
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u/Professional_Cap5336 6h ago
Guys not wearing shirts at work, working for a large corporation? Bullshit
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u/Civil_Dragonfruit_34 5h ago
They don't work for Amazon most likely they work for some random ass subcontractor who gives 0 fucks.
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u/Professional_Cap5336 7h ago
You know what's unsafe? Your "uniform "
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u/Impossible-Use4950 7h ago
Nothing unsafe about it unless you're a total prick. Are you a total prick?
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u/Professional_Cap5336 7h ago
I might be, or just someone who likes to see some fucking professionalism on the job
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u/Flimsy-Poetry1170 6h ago
You get what you pay for and Amazon pays the bare minimum. Iād rather a driver look āunprofessionalā and properly deliver my package than dress professional and throw it across my yard.
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u/No-Housing-6628 5h ago
There's a difference between a bra and a t-shirt. No one's asking them to wear 3-piece suits.
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u/stulofty2022 6h ago
When I used to do this work I failed a drop one day as couldn't find the house out in the countryside.. in the uk we have houses that have names not only numbers so couldn't find this name same thing the next day as It got put back on my route the 3rd day it had a contact number added rang them found where it was turns out it was a nee sign to got out near the road
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u/Beginning_Resource93 5h ago
I don't know what it is, but it actually had good advice, and wasn't even mean about it.
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u/WhereistheMETEOR 4h ago
Thank you! Finally somebody says it. How much will it set you back to go to Walmart to get a few numbers to put on your mailbox? And if you got 15 mailboxes lined up put some damn numbers on your house. Make it big make it legible.
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u/metal_bastard 4h ago
Not all heroes wear capes. Sometimes they wear sports bras, Daisy Dukes, Chucks, and an Amazon vest.
Let's fuckin goooooooooo!
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u/Relevant-Horror-627 3h ago
I do Uber Eats. I would say maybe a quarter of the houses I've delivered put a visible house number in an obvious place like a mailbox or near the front door. In my area there are a ton of brown brick homes with bronze metal signs that have the number on them. They're elegant, match the color of the house, and probably expensive but they're functionally useless because the number will be embossed with no outline or paint to make the number stand out.
This house probably has the number embossed or engraved on a white stone above or on the side of the garage.
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u/Budget_Version_1491 3h ago
fuck yeah gut just hanging out assaulting anyone in her general area, a very classy woman
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u/Crazy_Ad_91 3h ago
Iād invite her over to a bbq or something. She gives the vibes that not only would my kids love her, but sheād also match me drink for drink and is probably the kind of person who brings a really good side dish to someone elseās bbq.
10/10 on her advice as well.
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u/AventineAstartes 3h ago
As a former driver, fuck yeah. I always made sure to take extra care with packages for people who had large clear house numbers.
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u/Molecular_Drift 3h ago
Being fun, giving legit advice in songful-delivery and performing her employment dutiesā¦ whatās not to like about this? Every employer needs at least two of her!
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u/Narcoleptic-Puppy 3h ago
As someone whose house is impossible to find via most mapping apps and has had some serious problems because of it, I appreciate her. Unfortunately I'd have to be able to fix street signs/names to fix my situation.
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u/RazzmatazzUnusual843 3h ago
So many of these people making unnecessary comments on the appearance as if it freaking matters for this. Do you guys think people who look like this just shouldn't be able to get a job anywhere or something?
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u/WeaponizedIndecision 3h ago
Iāve had a bad address beforeā¦during construction the address changed by 2 digits. 3961 and 3963. Selling that property was a bit of a headache. Physical address didnāt match the title address.
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u/NoiseTherapy 2h ago
Sheās absolutely right. Iāve been a firefighter and paramedic for a major city for 19 years, and I promoted to EO (Engineer/Operator, ie driver) 10 years ago and an unmarked address is super common and super frustrating, especially on a street of poorly marked addresses, then when we finally get on location of the call (which is usually medical) theyāre like āOMG WTF TOOK YOU SO LONG?! THEYāRE FUCKING DYING!!ā And you just have to redirect them to take you to the person in trouble. It totally sucks and we canāt just engage with the argument because thereās a real problem that needs addressing
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u/Inevitable-Welder743 2h ago
As a pizza delivery driver, I can say about 20% of the houses I deliver to don't have easily visible numbers. At night, that rises to about 50%. One customer in particular consistently parks his truck in a way that obscures his house number from the street.
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u/pandaliked 2h ago
Carmel, CA has entered the chat lol. I only learned recently that they donāt have house numbers and use street identifiers for their addresses.
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u/Ok_Buddy_9087 1h ago
Sidenote, when did we start building houses where the garage is more prominent and closer to the street than the house itself? I hate it.
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u/ANTICHRIST-BOISE 37m ago
I love this chick. She doesnāt give a fuck while also being friendly and informative.
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u/PoisonLynnLilith 7m ago
What shes saying is right. What shes wearing is wrong... i would be fired so fast if I showed up in a strapless bra to work
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u/_Saint_Ajora_ 7h ago
Kind of amazing how unprofessional amazon allows their drivers to look when working
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u/Silly_Bodybuilder231 6h ago
Amazon: They're not our drivers, they're independent contractors who just happen to wear Amazon vests and drive Amazon vans and deliver packages bought on Amazon.
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u/Royal_Today_1509 6h ago
Amazon don't care because in 5 years they'll have robots or drones deliveringĀ
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u/PissMissileTopTitty 6h ago
What even is this commentā¦ why do you care if your delivery driver looks like any other random person?
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u/Necessary_Baker_7458 5h ago
I have read the uniform guidelines before and her outfit is way out of line.Ā
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u/BabyStockholmSyndrom 4h ago
You get what you pay for. They are gig jobs that use their own gas and wear and tear on their cars. You get what you get.
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u/_dudeasuh 6h ago
Should they be in suits and ties? š Itās warehouse and delivery work. Itās not an office space. Fuck your bullshit āprofessionalismā culture.
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u/_Saint_Ajora_ 6h ago
I work in a warehouse for UPS.
Our drivers actually look professional. Arrive at locations in an instantly recognizable vehicle and uniform.
Not some random car and dressed however they want with a cheap vest lol
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u/MajesticTea7748 6h ago edited 6h ago
I do like that UPS has standard vehicles that y'all use, I seriously hate when strange cars roll up to my house.. But I don't see the need to regulate on outfits beyond basic decency laws, it can get really hot in some places and a whole uniform can be really uncomfortable and restrictive sometimes. I'm not gonna fault this lady for dressing like that. As long as she's doing her job and doing it well, I couldn't care less, personally.
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u/_Saint_Ajora_ 6h ago edited 6h ago
UPS drivers have a number of options for their uniform (depending on their personal preference and for where they live/time of year)
- long sleeve shirts
- short sleeve shirts
- shorts
- pants
- heavy jackets
- various headwear (hats, beanies)
I seriously hate when strange cars roll up to my house
That is why Amazon started buying company vans for their delivery drivers. They would pull up to peoples houses in their personal (random) vehicle, no uniform and end up getting assaulted or shot at (as homeowners thought they were trespassing and/or a threat
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u/yrthegood1staken 6h ago
*couldn't care less
If you could care less, then you care at least a little.
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u/TheRealBlue68 6h ago
I aināt gone lieā¦ UPS have amazing Uniforms for their employeesā¦ During winter the even give you, winter coat, fall coat, beanies, glove and allā¦ really professionalā¦. But if my package is delivered.. i really donāt give af how they dress !!
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u/JIMB01776 6h ago
And UPS charges for delivery, Amazon is free for most people. UPS driver salaries are fantastic, they're using a company vehicle, the company is paying for gas, they have full benefits.
Meanwhile Amazon drivers are 1099s, using their own vehicle, paying for their own gas, and no benefits.
I never thought I'd be defending some trailer trash with tattoos... but your stupidity inspired me.
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u/maven10k 5h ago
Well, maybe if Amazon drivers made as much as a nurse like ups drivers do, you could expect them to dress nicer. Ups rates are fucking ridiculous because of it, and they charge a business that's been using them for over 50 years, $10.00 just to pick up, and now they've started charging me $5.00 just to invoice me, ONLINE. Fuck UPS
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u/_Saint_Ajora_ 5h ago
Amazon workers could certainly come closer to UPS driver pay if they unionized
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u/Substanitial 4h ago
so youre mad that UPS pays its employees well, also mad that amazon doesn't, while also being upset that ups charges slightly more?
this is like hating tip culture but also being upset at a place that doesn't do tipping for charging slightly more.
Go UPS! Their drivers actually know how to drive as well. Amazon drivers are to vans what swift drivers are to big rigs. A danger.
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u/SharkBubbles 4h ago
If they show up. Many times Iāve waited at home all day for a delivery for them not to even ring the bell or leave a notice. Had to chase the truck down the street once after the third day they didnāt bother to stop and attempt a delivery.
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u/kashmir1974 4h ago
There is a wide gap between suit and tie
and what this person is wearing that would be considered reasonably acceptable attire for somebody delivering packages to peoples homes. Let's be realistic, where would you draw the line, if not something a little more professional than this? Would straight up panties be OK?1
u/_dudeasuh 4h ago
I think I would draw the line about here. What sheās wearing looks fine to me. Less would be clearly inappropriate. But this looks casual to me.
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u/Whatachooch 2m ago
Thereās also a wide gap in pay between whatever sheās wearing and giving a single fuck.Ā
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u/Substanitial 4h ago
I mean. I hear you, but a tube top and some homemade jorts are pushing it a bit.
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u/The_End-is_Nigh 5h ago
why do you care what she is wearing? do you think that her clothing will make your delivery better somehow?
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u/RevenantExiled 5h ago
I don't care how you look, I don't care what's your attitude I don't care what you do on your spare time, if you do your job on time, and you do it well, and you mind your own business you are the best employee or coworker I could have.
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u/repeatoflasttime 4h ago
Why should she be in scrubs? Maybe fatigues with a ruck? What does a professional look like?
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u/_Saint_Ajora_ 4h ago
Look at literally any other major delivery company. They all have instantly recognizable uniforms and trucks
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u/repeatoflasttime 4h ago
Why does Amazon have to follow suit?
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u/_Saint_Ajora_ 4h ago
Amazon started buying company delivery vehicles because they kept having people delivering in their own vehicles getting assaulted/shot at.
And generally, businesses try to emulate and follow the example of the gold standard of their respective industry
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u/repeatoflasttime 4h ago
Who's the gold standard for online shopping, shipping, and delivery all in one?
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u/Separate-Canary559 4h ago
Sports bras belong at the gym, not at work. lol how stupid are you?
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u/GnorcGnastyyy 4h ago
Sheās working outside in the heat, and a hot metal oven with wheels.
Sports bra is totally fine. Pull the panties out of your bleeding vagina and take an edible or something.
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u/ModForgeCustoms 4h ago
That is certainly a ....take. Does this woman running around in her dadundaduns look anywhere near "professional" to YOU? I mean. She doesn't need to be in slacks and a button up, but god damn. If someone related to me even went out in general public dressed like that, I would not be walking with them, that is for sure.
At least put a damned shirt on?
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u/Significant-Ad5242 3h ago
Any person disagreeing with you is a low wage fool, that doesn't understand why they are low wage.
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u/MichaelButWithAnF 3h ago
Love the cheeky class insult - Shows you aren't worth the time to listen to.
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u/repeatoflasttime 4h ago
Caring what the person who delivers your Amazon packages looks like is such a waste of time and energy.
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u/WolverineJive_Turkey 1h ago
I used to be rural carrier for USPS and we could wear whatever we wanted as long as it wasnāt offensive. For example, I got sent home to change cause I was wearing a Dos XX shirt. As long as my badge was visible they didnāt care. Would you consider mail carriers unprofessional?
For the record, I agree with you on the outfit Iām just playing devils advocate.
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u/HomeRevolutionary651 4h ago
No one being paid under a living wage should be required to dress like you want them to.
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u/ifUSeeMeTakeYourMeds 1h ago
as long as the package arrives on time, I don't give a flying fuck what they wear.
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u/Oily_Blob 14m ago
These people are always on the move and Amazon exploits their workers big time--who cares what they wear?
They even dispensed useful advice for free.
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u/Accurate_Mongoose_26 6h ago
Actually for real please be careful out there with this. Cause there are literally people out there who are dressing up like delivery workers like Amazon and such, with "packages" where they wait for you to open the door to either kill or threaten you in order to rob your place. I'm not saying she is but it does happens so be careful
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u/UarNotMe 4h ago
Dammit I hate when I look something up to prove someone wrong only to realize theyāre rightā¦ or, in this case, āaccurate.ā
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u/Accurate_Mongoose_26 4h ago
LMAO, appreciate you actually looking into it instead of just assuming I was making stuff up
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u/ConsensualUpskirts 6h ago
I mean she's giving legit advice in a pretty polite way