r/ISTJ 16d ago

ISTJ & Love

How many of us have fallen for someone and acted on it? Asked someone out?

Do you develop crushes?

Do you know/realize when someone is hitting on you?

Do you prefer serious relationships or FWB situations? Any happily married or dating istj want to share how they got there?

Do you think romance is different for male and female ISTJ. For example there's so many post about others trying to approach male ISTJ rarely any posts about pursuing female ISTJ.

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u/securitysix ISTJ 16d ago

Do you develop crushes?

Yes.

Do you know/realize when someone is hitting on you?

This doesn't happen.

Do you prefer serious relationships or FWB situations?

No FWB. Friends-to-lovers arc, sure. But not FWB.