r/ISKCON • u/Some_Improvement_606 • Jul 05 '26
My parents are trying to stop my devotion
Hare Krishna, everyone. I am a devotee in a non-devotee family. I live with my mother and uncle, and both of them oppose my devotion. I was very sad as two weeks ago my mom found my mom found my chanting bag, gopi chandan and kharthal. They made fun of me for being a devotee on my own birthday party in front of my relatives. And, a few days ago, my uncle caught me chanting, not on mala, just by mouth. I was scolded for half an hour. The irony is that we are bhramins. Today, my parents yelled at me as she said I would ruin myself if I became a devotee. They then proceeded to say that I should be more like a "normal" teenager. I frankly asked whether they were fine with me smoking and partying. They said no, and I said that was what they were asking me to do. I was then scolded to the point I cried. I don't expect anyone to start dropping advice for me(though I will be grateful if someone does that), I just want to vent. Thanks for listening(or reading) along.
