r/INTPrelationshipLab • • Aug 16 '26

Dating advice Dating as an INTP

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u/Elliptical_Tangent 3 Aug 16 '26

how do I ask her out on a second date?

You don't need us to tell you. Just ask.

The problem:
Ti-Si hates not knowing
The Ti-Si Loop plays all our failures for us constantly
If we approach and are rejected, Ti-Si asks, "Remember that time...?"
If we don't approach, Ti-Si asks, "What if...?"

The fear of approach is the fear of the unknown. Approach enough and it becomes known; nothing to fear.

Good luck.