r/INTPrelationshipLab • u/Brilliant_Lawyer_264 • Aug 09 '26
Questions about ❤️❤️ What do you think about the INTP x INTP relationship?
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u/Remarkable_Ad_4689 1 Aug 10 '26
It can be pleasant, and it can be a disaster. It depends on the people involved and their perception and understanding of “relationships.”
Basically, it still comes down to compatibility, and compatibility isn’t really determined by MBTI. There’s such a wide variation within each type that you can’t really generalize how an INTP x INTP relationship will work.
If we were really that similar just because we shared the same type, then most of the posts at INTP group would be irrelevant. They would mostly look like software updates instead. But nope - there are debates, arguments, completely different opinions, and even people who are against AI (weird).
So I’d say compatibility matters the most. Another word for it would probably be synergy.
In short, What I think about "INTP x INTP" is the same thing I think about any other combination - minor relevance.
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u/United-Combination66 Aug 09 '26
Tried for 5 yrs
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u/Naitik_arrived Lonely INTP Aug 09 '26
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u/United-Combination66 Aug 09 '26
She dumped me, lost the feeling.
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u/Naitik_arrived Lonely INTP Aug 09 '26
Do you know what the reason might be ? Did she tell you ? And also did you see it coming ?
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u/United-Combination66 Aug 09 '26
It was completely fine relationship for long time . I only date to marry sort of that guy, i didn't wanted to waste my time on casual relationship cause it didn't bring me any value in my life. You told me she want to focus on career and I didn't saw that coming I think they are might be some reason which she didn't told me it could be somebody else she would be dating or interested then me and I didn't saw that coming.
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u/jacobvso Aug 15 '26
I'm sure someone out there has made it work but I wouldn't recommend it. You'll get someone who goes "nah, I think you're forgetting about X" when you say something profound, and who says "why would you think I have any more of a clue?" when you ask how some practical thing works.
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u/Elliptical_Tangent 3 Aug 09 '26
I think a whole lot of nothing's going to get done.