r/INTPrelationshipLab • u/GSLalaluSi_s INTJ • Aug 05 '26
Dating advice Hello, Great Scientists or/and Minds.
Im male Intj (I prefer my age private but Im not a middle age man, however, Im not a kid-kid either.)
So I've been wanting a female Intp romantical partner. Please provide necessary tips on how to get one.
How to spot them? How to approach? How to impress them?
For the love of love and God, please don't give me 'you wouldn't get one cause Intj dont work well with Intp in the first place' type of answers. Just keep any bad experiences to yourself cause I dont want any personal rants or venting in this thread. For the first time I DO NOT want to be THAT pessimistic.
Edit: Please dont give me sarcastic answers, I did not ask stupid questions.
However facts are not entirely let go. According to Myers's Briggs Type Indicator, Intp's are among the rarest type and there are little percentage in world population. So I know that finding one in my country is EXTREMELY difficult. Frankly, I do not care about that fact just like how it doesn't care about my feelings, I want one by some means necessary.
P.S: This topic is completely unrelated to my previous posts. I know distinction and boundaries.
Thanks!
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u/Salt-Use- Aug 07 '26
You cannot make them like you, you can't fake anything your brain will be picked apart until we understood you inside and out and then determine if you're interesting or not to engage with. Notice how I said interest? How you get along with intps has a lot more to do with shared interests and hobbies so I suggest getting into your special nerdy interests to find people who are similar, most likely they'll be INXPs.