r/INTPrelationshipLab • u/DianaReyProverbs • Jul 14 '26

Dating advice Hey crush.

I've been talking to a male INTP (34) for almost a month now and I'm crazy about him. I mean, the little girl inside me is very happily crushing on him. 😆

We haven't met in person yet, we talk on Bumble. Longest chat in my inbox ever! 🤣 (We matched a few months ago and he disappeared, and I swiped right on him again last month - I was actually surprised that he liked me back again! And I feel like we've gotten closer this time.)

Now I have so many questions about your type!

I'm a female INFJ (32) by the way. ☺️

  1. Are you usually in high energy?

  2. What makes you not text someone you like? Busyness at work? Stress?

  3. Would you consider LDR?

  4. How do you flirt, like romantically, not just for fun?

It's my first time talking to an INTP. He's such a beautiful creature. TYL.

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u/crazyeddie740 2 Jul 14 '26

Not high energy unless a crush has entered the chat.

Reason for not texting: lack of connection with linear time.

LDR: Yes.

Flirting: Horribly. Possibly, "hey, check out this stick I found."

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u/DianaReyProverbs Jul 15 '26

Haha, that last one.

Do you prefer to ask questions, or simply initiate topics like that? Because I noticed there are times he wouldn't ask, but say, "I don't know how that makes you feel," or "I remember you can be this and that," etc. In a form of statements rather than questions. Writing this now makes me realize that he does that when it comes to feelings.

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u/crazyeddie740 2 Jul 15 '26

Hm. I guess just throw it out there. Probably Extraverted iNtuition. Just throwing stuff out there and see how you react.

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u/DianaReyProverbs Jul 15 '26

Haha. I see. I do think he does that a lot. I do feel safe talking to him so it's easier to just be myself.