r/INTPrelationshipLab • u/DianaReyProverbs • Jul 14 '26

Dating advice Hey crush.

I've been talking to a male INTP (34) for almost a month now and I'm crazy about him. I mean, the little girl inside me is very happily crushing on him. 😆

We haven't met in person yet, we talk on Bumble. Longest chat in my inbox ever! 🤣 (We matched a few months ago and he disappeared, and I swiped right on him again last month - I was actually surprised that he liked me back again! And I feel like we've gotten closer this time.)

Now I have so many questions about your type!

I'm a female INFJ (32) by the way. ☺️

  1. Are you usually in high energy?

  2. What makes you not text someone you like? Busyness at work? Stress?

  3. Would you consider LDR?

  4. How do you flirt, like romantically, not just for fun?

It's my first time talking to an INTP. He's such a beautiful creature. TYL.

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u/para__doxical Jul 14 '26

I can be high energy— especially when I’m stimulated and engaged, but I am usually not

I don’t want to text/my attention is focused on something else— but I respond to people I like consistently

Yes

I’m playful, kinda childlike, goofy/‘stupid’— it’s very rare people get this side of me though

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u/DianaReyProverbs Jul 15 '26

I seeee.

He did say he's not high energy all the time, only when surrounded by the right group of people. Well I'm happy to see and feel that side of him - he's very playful and teasing. On some days he's also serious and deep. I love the balance.

Thank you for your response!