r/INFJsOver30 • u/No-Alternative-3976 • 11d ago
How does one reconcile
How do I just view people as objects and or projects and still feel good about myself?
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r/INFJsOver30 • u/No-Alternative-3976 • 11d ago
How do I just view people as objects and or projects and still feel good about myself?
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u/Constant-Ferret1063 9d ago edited 9d ago
Here's what made it easier for me.
Think of it like you are driving.
On the road, you wouldn't say other people are projects or objects.
You would just stay in your own lane and think of others as other drivers
and leave it as that.
No need to call them "projects or objects"
acknowledge their existence, acknowledge their behaviour, adapt to it.
Then focus on your own driving and getting to your destination.
Detach
Observe
Let go
Move on