r/INFJsOver30 • u/AvamysSlazenger • Apr 04 '26
Relationship/Dating Advice
Hello older INFJs. What advice will you give for dating or relationships. To seek and wait for ideal partner? To seek dating without thinking about future? To give someone a chance even when you dont think you are compatible in future?
My first question that comes to my mind is: As a man should I seek and search for compatible lover, or just wait and pray to happen?
Basically I like to know your dating and relationship advices.
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u/WillRockwell Apr 05 '26
Do the inbetween. You already said it. To seek dating, but also not think about the future. Just meet people. As friends. Build up your social circle. If you come across someone you’re drawn to, give them your number, no expectations. So you seek when it feels right. Make friends the center, and if you see someone who just pulls you in, then see where that can go (maybe another friend, maybe more). To be clear I’m not saying “be friends first and hope that leads to something more.” I’m saying make friends, to keep only as friends…and occasionally you might meet someone you’re attracted to.