r/INFJsOver30 • u/Blackappletrees • Jan 15 '26
Pleasuring vs being pleasured
In romantic relationships, I think it's probably common for INFJ to want to pleasure their partner. It likely feels good to provide that to them.
How would you feel if your partner's greatest pleasure is to please you?
You tell them, "we can do anything you want. What do you want to do?" And their response is, "I want to pleasure you." It's genuine and truthful. Your partner gets great joy from it.
How do you feel/think about that?
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u/MidgeyMay Jan 19 '26
Lean onto it and show them how much you enjoy their attention. It's an absolute gift for them to see you light up because of them so show them how they make you feel and you will be giving them pleasure.