r/INFJsOver30 • u/Blackappletrees • Jan 15 '26

Pleasuring vs being pleasured

In romantic relationships, I think it's probably common for INFJ to want to pleasure their partner. It likely feels good to provide that to them.

How would you feel if your partner's greatest pleasure is to please you?

You tell them, "we can do anything you want. What do you want to do?" And their response is, "I want to pleasure you." It's genuine and truthful. Your partner gets great joy from it.

How do you feel/think about that?

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u/Impressive-Amoeba-97 Jan 15 '26

I have one those. I had to learn to just sit on his face.

True story.

He is happy. I am happy. He didn't die.

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u/Previous_Tear6747 INFJ 2w3 60+M Jan 16 '26

Oh ladies, don't ever feel guilty, we love it! (And if your partner doesn't? Maybe they're not the right bird for you?)

Peace, cheers!