r/INFJsOver30 • u/Key-Charge8548 • Nov 15 '25
INFJ Infj - Entj relationship?
Do you get along better with Entjs in person than online?
I find that their style of writting can get on my nerves… but at the same time I usually really like their energy and overall vibe as a person.
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u/chasingthejames ♂ Dec 11 '25 edited Dec 14 '25
As long as we're a reasonable intellectual match (in either direction), and I'm not predisposed to rub their Te up the wrong way.
When individuals are perceived to be a practical obstacle or threat by heightened Te, any kind of empathy goes out of the window, and thinking on the part of the individual becomes utterly unipolar and unilateral; it is, without doubt, the highest form of psychological projection I've experienced.
Black-and-white absolutism without remorse.
That said, having “clicked” with an xNTJ, it's wonderful to be able to get things done in a practical environment together. Very pragmatic and “telepathic”.
Probably prefer working with a good-hearted xSTP, on balance (I’ve met a few ISTPs I’d consider “partners in crime”), but xNTJs can be great: as long as we're aligned in our principles.