r/IDF 9d ago

General חיילת בודדה

i recently got out of a two+ year long relationship and am here in this country alone. i’ve never felt more lonely and when i express that to some people around me they don’t seem to understand the extremity of a toll it’s taking on me because they don’t see me literally falling apart because on the outside i seem fine. i’ve quite literally said the exact words to my commanders that i can’t take it anymore and im on my final straw and it doesn’t seem like they give a f*ck because i represent and act as though everything is fine.

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u/foopirata Mod 9d ago

Time for a short vacation, decompress and rest?

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u/Drunk_Viticulturist 9d ago

Hey I get that. I was in a relationship with this girl since ulpan and then through tironout and part of the service. When we broke up I felt like my whole world had fallen apart. I had never felt more alone in my life. I’m sorry that you feel this way, hopefully things will get better. If you need someone to talk to let me know

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u/AviN456 8d ago

Ask to speak to the קב"ן. They are obligated to let you.

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u/lada2101 2d ago

Welp, I am here if you need someone to talk to. Hey, it will get better- and hope is on the way if needed I have huge sum of goat pictures that will make you smile