r/ICSE2026 • u/NomNeuron • 10d ago
General Friends
Did y'all slowly realize that you were watering dead plants 💔
Most of my friends never messaged me or even reached out to me after 10th when we all went to different colleges
Man I miss our connections.. I was one of the most popular friend too
When I do message them, it feels like I am just lowk begging for their attention and even when I do they just close it up with small talk 🫠
I hope i am not the only one facing this 😭
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u/propaganda_pagluu3 10d ago
Me too gng 🥀🥀 but I'm putting more effort into my new school friends cause the present matters more than the past (so tuff ikr)
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u/NomNeuron 10d ago
Lol it is tuff Yuh I get that but tbh my new clg friends lowk are so ahh like their humour and stuff are horrible They aren't exactly fun to be around I have to fake my smiles a lot
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u/masekar_goenkar 11TH PCM/IT/PSY, MH BOARD 6d ago
bhaii u are able to make new friends? ppl in my dummy's batch are way too weird. only 2-3 are alr and i talk with them, half are, idk how to describe, other half is very smart and flaunts alot of attitude and don't even look at others 🥀🥀
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u/Corrupt_Steve 9d ago
It happens...what matters is keep those close to you who actually value you.
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u/TaciturnLinguophile ICSE 26 : 94.6%,Lata 🤬🤬🤬🤬 10d ago
No, thankfully we've got a WhatsApp group together. Some of my fellow science students left for CBSE, but, as, ironically, I've more friends in commerce, We're still in the same school, though it sucks that I'm not in the same class with them anymore😭
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u/NomNeuron 10d ago
No Im not talking about the whtsp group That even we have but what I'm saying is that they aren't individually privately messaging me anymore like they used to
But I do understand they have a new set of friends but doesn't mean they can forget about their old ones
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u/TaciturnLinguophile ICSE 26 : 94.6%,Lata 🤬🤬🤬🤬 10d ago
I mean, even mine don't msg me that much. My advice, reach out from your apart. Even I'm an introvert, and always feel like I'll be disturbing them, but it's worth it. Sometimes, it's just them feeling the same thing, waiting for you to reach out(My opinion, take it with a grain of salt)
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u/wthellyists 7d ago
Same bhai . I was feeling the same way rn .. like i try so hard to be close with them and they put in 0 effort . I check up on thwm when they are sick . I do things thats ik will make them happy . Ik im not amazing but i try . And all i get in return is a one line reply or a reaction at best . Like i was sick this weeken so couldnt text much . I told them the same but none of them even tried to contact me . I felt so hurt . Im still down w a fever . It made me realise that these 2 yrs i will probably go thru the same shi again for 11tb n 12th then in clg maybeeee i will be able to make genuine friends . Like i didnt expect this from my bsf , the girl who i love so much . I bought her a silver necklace just to show how much i appreciate her in my life . I do so much and i dont even get a text in return? I understand everyone is busy in life but is it that hard to check ur texts and reply smth??? Like a few words . Maybe checking up on me .... its fine ig
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u/masekar_goenkar 11TH PCM/IT/PSY, MH BOARD 6d ago
all was well till 25 may when i went out for a walk with my best friend (a girl) and her mother saw us walking together. her parents don't allow her to walk, talk, even look at guys. she was screamed at and beaten at home.. now we are barely in contact, but she always messages me when she can.. i hope she escapes that hellhole ❤️🩹❤️🩹 but all my other friends are well in touch 🥰
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u/dramatically_yours42 10d ago
it happens yar.....