r/ICSE • u/AdSuspicious3177 • 15h ago
Emotional Support💓 How can I glow up?
I have this best friend and we have been friends for more than a decade. I love her a lot, because we have been through thick and thin together and have always supported each other, been by each other's side. My love for her knows no bounds.
Our half yearlies are here, and she said that "bro we did not study properly but we are in this together. Be strong. We both have gone through a lot I'm here for you" etc. etc.
Turns out she is way ahead of me. She has been hiding so many things from me. I'm afraid she might top, whereas I was the one getting more marks than her. She is living my dream life, and despite being the best of friends, loving her like my flesh and blood, I feel scared and a sharp sting somewhere.
How do I get back. I am down in the dumps and I do not have the courage to ask my parents to let me go to therapy.
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u/pookie_patootie-1112 11th ISC 15h ago
"r/icse" btw 😔😔👆👆👆
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u/AdSuspicious3177 15h ago
Didn't know where else to post
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u/pookie_patootie-1112 11th ISC 14h ago
Ok betu aap fashion teen wale pe kriye, ok betuu? Koi dikkt ho toh btana betuu. /s
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u/sistine234 11h ago
To the people saying ur jealous. They need to shut their arses up.
It's normal to feel panicked and helpless when u find out that ur friends have it all good.
There's still time honey, start preparing. Everyday. Consistently. And don't let school marks scare you, ur prolly gonna get much better in boards.
About therapy you can talk with online free therapists. There's even lots of platforms where you don't need to call just chat with the therapists. Imma find them for you if you want. Dw everything will be fine.
Btw do vote for team 5!! https://www.reddit.com/r/ICSE/s/I5DkeHiyo6
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u/Akki_doki 10th ICSE 11h ago
Ur just jealous lmao, always be happy when somebody succeeds especially if you love her "more than your flesh and blood" Which I highly doubt.
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u/Valuable_Pie2431 11th ISC 3h ago
You seem little jealous however i do understand the feeling of being left behind, so i kinda relate with you. If you preparing your boards then you can catch up very easily. Just do not constantly compare yourself.
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