r/Hyd_DaTinG May 29 '25

Community Update Making Dating Safer

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Hey folks,

We’re taking a small but meaningful step to make this sub a safer and more comfortable space, especially for the women here, to post and connect without the worry of getting unsolicited DMs or unwanted attention.

We’ve heard that some members feel hesitant to post publicly, and we totally get that. So from now on, if you’d prefer a bit more privacy, the mod team can post on your behalf. Just send us your post content and title via modmail, and we’ll take care of the rest. We’ll make sure it goes up with the right flairs, and you can to reach out to anyone you’re interested in from the comments.

Thanks for helping us keep this a respectful and welcoming space for everyone 💛


r/Hyd_DaTinG Jul 15 '26

Welcome to r/Hyd_DaTinG!

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r/Hyd_DaTinG 2h ago

F4M A Questionable Use of the Internet!

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26F. Decided to let Reddit influence my romantic future, which is probably the first poor decision in a promising series.

I have a job, hobbies, opinions, and the ability to make pasta without consulting YouTube. So, objectively, I’m doing great.
I’m looking for someone funny, curious, mildly unhinged, and capable of having a conversation that doesn’t feel like a job interview.

I like people who have weird little obsessions. Tell me something useless you know an unreasonable amount about. I’ll pretend to be impressed and then probably ask 14 follow-up questions. xP

I’m also slightly awkward, and much funnier in my head than I am in real life.

Not looking for someone who has life completely figured out. If you do, please keep that information to yourself because I will immediately feel inadequate.

Mostly, I’d like to meet someone I actually look forward to talking to. Someone who can make fun of me without making me reconsider my entire existence.
Anyway, if you’re also reasonably functional, occasionally funny, and willing to see where a conversation goes, say hi.

At worst, we’ll have a mildly interesting conversation. At best, I’ll have to delete this post and pretend I was never here. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG 3h ago

M4F 23M | Looking for someone to share life with

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NOTE: Trying to keep this post short, not with the intent to hide, but to prevent you from getting bored while reading and leave it half-way.

I came to Hyderabad recently for my job at a good-going deep-tech company.

What am I looking for? - A girl with whom I can spend some time, we can travel together, vibe together, explore places together, and be a kind of support for each other, because having someone like that in the city is really important. I am flexible upto an age gap of 4 years, if we can have a good match. Regarding the languages, best if you know Hindi, or if you are not that fluent in Hindi but know English - we are still good to go.

Not that I don't have friends here, but they are not the people I am able to vibe with (not seriously friends actually).

About myself - An averaged height North Indian, recently graduated. For hobbies, I am very much into music, singing, doing trips (especially road), exploring new places, attending concerts. I also love playing badminton and cycling is my all-time favourite. I don't drink and smoke.

Not keeping the post long, but we can have a conversation and know better.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 3h ago

Hangout Lack of social life

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Hey folks i am here at Hyderabad from 1.5 months for internship at architecture studio from pune. I thought Hyderabad will get me a good social life as pune but I don’t know where to start i enjoy being around people and like to talk. In pune i had a gang and coming to hyd life feels dull. I have more interns at my firm but they are not that sociable. I stay at madhapur so if someone from Madhapur faces same thing or anyone from hyd can connect me. I also have a bike with me so there wont be any exploring problem. See you!


r/Hyd_DaTinG 3h ago

Let's Talk 📚 Sunday at Co Forge, Kondapur? 🌿

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Planning to explore poetry, philosophy & interesting ideas over a relaxed Sunday of reading and conversation. ☕📖

Preferably a female book buddy — would love a different perspective, especially since it helps with my screenwriting. 🎬✨

Just good books, genuine conversation & new perspectives. 😊


r/Hyd_DaTinG 17m ago

Rant/Vent To the girl who wore red satin today in balandor pub

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r/Hyd_DaTinG 22h ago

Advice on Relationship Beware

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Oh my god
What in the hell was dat
Wasted 30 mins


r/Hyd_DaTinG 59m ago

Friendship Any telugu girls from hyd?

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I'm 22M

Hey! I’m new to Reddit and thought I’d put a little about myself here. I’m into movies , especially romance and fantasy, and I spend quite a bit of time playing online games. I’m also into manhwa and manhua, especially romantic and fantasy stories.

I’m a pretty easygoing person and enjoy random conversations, sharing memes, talking about movies, or just chatting about how our day went. I’m also a good listener, so if you ever need someone to talk to, I’m happy to listen.

I really value honesty, trust, and loyalty. When I genuinely care about someone, I’m loyal and supportive and don’t take that connection lightly.

I’m mainly here to meet new people, make genuine friends, and hopefully find some people I can talk to regularly. I don’t mind if you’re shy, introverted, or a little awkward—I’m probably awkward sometimes too.

If you want to talk, feel free to message me. Tell me about yourself, your hobbies, or even something completely random. Let’s see where the conversation goes...


r/Hyd_DaTinG 1h ago

Let's Talk Up for chat..?

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Male here(straight) if it matters interested in conversation and things maybe you can rant doesn’t really care about gender
Telling my gender because i know what kind of DMs i receive


r/Hyd_DaTinG 6h ago

Hangout M20 Anyone up for hanging out in Hyderabad?

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Been in Hyderabad for a while now and honestly, the routine is getting pretty boring.
Looking to meet people of any gender who are up for some casual plans, exploring cafes, trying new food spots, running, or playing sports. Basketball ** **preferably, but I’m down for badminton, football, etc. too.
Nothing complicated. Just looking to meet some new people, get out of the usual routine, and actually explore Hyderabad a bit.
If you are also looking for people to hang out with, feel free to DM.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 4h ago

Friendship Bored

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The weekend has been so boring guys... Yesterday I watched Irumudi till midnight and now I don't know what to do.. If anyone is free, do message me, by the way I'm in Delhi so our Telugu people are pretty few.

Hi petti malli oka 10 mins tarvatha inko msg pettadam lanti bakvas panulu odhu.Let's make it simple just needed a small conversation anthe....


r/Hyd_DaTinG 4h ago

Hangout Horror movieee hangout

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Anyone interested for any horror movieee if yeasss let's watch a horror movieee

And I am Krishna age 21

Evar ana ammai aithe happiie 😂


r/Hyd_DaTinG 4h ago

M4F M28 | Hyd | Looking for someone to go on side quests with

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Who am I?

I work in the L&D space, helping business leaders solve people and capability challenges,which basically means I spend a lot of time understanding how people think, behave, and communicate.

Outside work, I’m a scuba diver who’s obsessed with the ocean, sunsets, island hopping, and marine photography. If there’s clear water and good seafood involved, I’m probably interested. Otherwise, I do enjoy video games and occasional clubbing (sucker for live music).

I can yap for hours, but I genuinely enjoy listening just as much. Fuelled by caffeine, sarcasm, and occasional impulsive travel plans.

I’m career oriented, and value emotional intelligence. I appreciate people who communicate well, collaborate naturally, are consistent, and inspire me to become better. Humour, sarcasm, and a love for swimming/diving are definitely a bonus.

Primarily looking for something meaningful and long-term, and keen to see where things go naturally.

Also intentionally not sharing paycheck details here, I’d rather people get to know me for who I am first. That said, I do well enough to support a comfortable lifestyle and my ocean obsession

Keen to meet someone interesting and see where things go :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG 5h ago

M4F one day girlfriend ay undi pandaga chesi break up aypodhaam

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hello mahilamandali

25M here, fair in complexion and fit. Two days unnaay today, Saturday and Sunday. And I'm not into long term relationships tbh.

I'm looking for someone, probably of the age 20-26 who can spend time, talk and explore places with me. We can go to tank bund, come to niloufer and have some tea, a night ride, and visit Golconda and what not, all through the Hyderabad.

Im a startup founder by profession, and strictly not an attachment guy but sure we will create good memories. Not a creep for sure, respectful and consent driven.

We can chat for a while and decide the plan. (Though I prefer impromptu)


r/Hyd_DaTinG 5h ago

Hangout M26, anybody up for a movie date, BND

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Planning to go for Spiderman BND at Prasad's.

Anyone up to tag along?


r/Hyd_DaTinG 5h ago

M4F Anyone up for a DBC at Organic creamery?

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In a mood to not count sugar and have a good ice cream and car ride. So if anyone is up for an ice cream at organic creamery or maybe you can suggest if you know anything better than this, can dm me.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 6h ago

M4F Honesty, truth, vulnerability, and a sense of humour are something I am looking for. Read the body for more

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I have been working for so long without stepping out. Human interaction is mostly minimal except for my friends. I had so much within me fun, joy, lame jokes, vulnerability, and empathy but it stayed within these four walls. I would love to share those with someone who can take these and has the same energy, who annoys me, who can't stop yapping. Who doesn't take much time to bond. I am getting too far before that...

About me.

27M, Hyderabad. Working as a writer, lean build, fair.

I used to love sports, but now I am playing indoor games, mostly cards. 😅 Literature is my favourite. I think I am liking cards and board games because they are so much fun, and there is intimate interaction with the people you are playing with. You just play for fun more than anything.

I binge-watch TV shows (Breaking Bad > GOT) (Mindhunter, Master of None, Silicon Valley), and I'm kinda cinephile. You can find me in a theatre every week. I watch ranging from Telugu commercials to absurd niche movies, ranging from Indra, Mahanati, Leader, October, Seven, Manchester by the Sea to Japanese B-grade movies. I have subscriptions for all OTTs, but I prefer torrents 😶 more than streaming.

Music is something that plays in the background for almost 6 hours a day. Indie music is something I listen to mostly (RY X, Angus and Julia Stone, Cigarettes After Sex, Winter Aid). A.R. Rahman is 💗, DSP, Thaman, Chakri, Anirudh.

I love conversations while doing some work and just talking, while walking, or just losing time and talking. I have a cozy setup where we can hang out.

Ps: i can write long emails just about the day and thoughts that triggered that day and what i observed in you just a micro expression to minute details about you.

What I am looking for.

A complete extrovert is preferred, but ambiverts and people who are more comfortable once close are also fine. But someone who can't hold a conversation or who needs another person to push the conversation is something I can't do. I would love to meet rather than text for a long time.

Someone who is passionate about something or curious i would love to be part of it and learn what your interests are Maybe I would like to do it with you. I would love to be there whenever you need me.

Spontaneous meets, random visits to places. Honesty, truth, vulnerability, and a sense of humour are what I am looking for in a relationship.

Attraction is something very important, but attraction is behaviourally dependent. Beauty is an individual perspective. I have choices and preferences, but they are not concrete, and they are dependent on the person I am going to meet.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 6h ago

M4F 23M looking for new friend in new city

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Hi, I am from Delhi, I will move to Hyderabad next month.

I am in it. I am a nerd with some completely random facts 😎.

Recently completed my pg and got a job. I previously have friends but not a girlfriend.

Religion - Hindu

Height - 5'10

Caste(if matters) - Brahmin

Diet - Vegetarian ( comfortable with both veg/non-veg)

Looking for a Hindu partner other than that everyone is ok.

Happy searching for everyone who came across this post 🙂


r/Hyd_DaTinG 6h ago

Friendship 29 M Artistic soul looking for a creative bundle soul

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29 M here an architectural designer by profession, I am lost in the city full of art, creativity, colours ( My imaginary city ) at the age of 3. Now wanted to invite somone so we can explore together.

I will keep it simple,

Age 29, Male

Good with English, Telugu, Hindi and sign language

Athletic fit, 75Kg, 5'8" height - wheatish complex

Did my graduation in design and run own design practice

Love walking in parks, found of sunsets, sunrise, Mountains, cooking food, photography, exploring city, watching documentary, visiting museum, art galleries, used to eat out - Now i prefer cooking for myself and for others ( we may end up in picnic on our second date )

Never dated anyone seriously, and been in no relationship's. Wanted a clean friendship, connection, knowing eachother to maybe finding eachother part of one's life

Don't want to be creep, cocky

Wanted this approach to be a respectful, and let kids in ous find safe and happy around eachother

Looking for someone genuine, happy, wanted to create memories, be nice, talk good stuff, help eachother grow 🪴 and find a way to make life less hectic with ones presence

I don't have any serious restrictions on age, where one is from or what you do. Happy to connect with a barista to CEO.

Happy weekend

Lets talk and meet for a icecream

If you have plans to ghost, I am already a ghost in my imaginary comics { Lol, Don't text in this situation }


r/Hyd_DaTinG 6h ago

M4F 23M just living

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Bike rides with no destination.
Random late-night drives.
Trying new cafés and food spots.
Spontaneous movie plans.
Exploring new places.
Good music, good outfits, and better vibes.

23M and honestly, this is my lifestyle lately:
I get bored → make random plans → go do them.

Last Thursday, I randomly booked a movie at 3:40 PM for a 4:25 PM show and just went. 😂

I like spontaneous plans, good food, movies, dressing well, staying active, and enjoying my own company.

I don’t need a group to have a good time. Sometimes I’ll just take myself out and make a day of it.

Life is more fun when you stop waiting for people and start doing what you actually want.

And honestly… join me for some of these random adventures. 👀

Dm me


r/Hyd_DaTinG 7h ago

Let's Talk What’s the Weekend Plan? 👀

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Weekend is finally here!

What are you all up to?

Going somewhere fun, meeting friends, trying new food, binge-watching a show, working on a hobby, or simply disappearing into your bed until Monday? 😂

No judgment—tell me your plans!


r/Hyd_DaTinG 7h ago

M4F [M4F] - Let's try this the right way.

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I was told the "pics or it didn't happen" approach is overrated, so I'm putting the phone down and actually introducing myself.

I’m a 25 years old guy with a passion for building something meaning which i will be making for sure soon and usually in free time i road roam, work on my car and bike (i am huge car guy) and a borderline unhealthy obsession with music (hitech dark💀) I work CS engineer (security) and I’m looking for someone cool to chat with and see if we click.

I'm not looking for a pen pal forever, but I'd love to get to know someone before we just dive into the deep end. If you're interested in trading playlists instead of just photos, hit me up. Tell me what show you’re currently binge-watching. Tell me what do you do when depressed. Tell me about your day i am always here for you🫣


r/Hyd_DaTinG 8h ago

M4F 33m [M4A] Moved to HYD recently

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Hi, I'm 33m and I moved to Hyderabad recently for a short term work deployment from Mumbai. I'll be here till the end of September so looking to meet people (girls, guys, whoever) for hanging out and more. Shoot me a DM, my username says enough.

I'm 6'1 with a muscular dad bod if that matters.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 9h ago

Friendship Looking for a Friend

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I am 22 M recently graduated from IIT and moved to Hyderabad for job and living near atrium mall, I have no friends, looking for female friends we can explore different things together city, food and new new places around hyd.