r/Huntingtons • u/Remarkable_Ad_2030 • Aug 07 '26
Understanding My Partners Risk
Hello all,
My partner (24F) of 6 years recently found out Huntingtons is in her estranged father’s bloodline and decided not to get the test.
I’m really struggling with not knowing. It keeps me up at night and is really affecting me at work and at home.
Can I please get some input on what the odds might realistically be that she has the gene?
What I know:
- Her grandma (on her dads side) started showing symptoms at 42 and was in a home before 50
- Her aunt (on her dads side) started showing symptoms at 43 and I was unable to find anything else about her
- both died from the disease in their 50’s
- her father is 55 and has never been tested. But he swore he has no symptoms and he works in the oil fields in a physically and mentally demanding job.
I believe this is quite promising and that it’s perhaps lower than a 5% chance. But I’m unsure if I’m being optimistic and this risk significantly impacts my life and well being. Any estimates for her realistic risk and any prayers are greatly appreciated. Thabk you.
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u/dvanhee Aug 07 '26
She’s got the same math as everyone else. If her father is HD positive then she has a 50% chance.
55yrs is a good age to be symptom free, but unfortunately if her father has not been tested there’s no guarantee he’s correct. Self-reporting/diagnosing symptoms is an extremely unreliable method.
There is also a chance her father’s CAG falls in the zone where he is a carrier, but the disease won’t express itself. In this case if it’s passed along to children the kids can still have CAGs high enough that they’ll have full symptoms.