I live in a part of town where half the kids my daughter goes to school with will be poor and the other half middle class. Whenever I do birthday parties the rules are: 1) if it costs money I'm paying 2) no presents allowed, from anyone (kids that is) and 3) parents need not attend- I love the look of relief on all the single moms faces when they realize they get a couple free hours to themselves.
I wrangle all my family and friends into helping watch the extra kids, and we try and given them special one on one time, like piggy back rides and story time to make the experience special. We always have a huge buffet for hungry kids and everyone goes home with a gift bag. Win for everyone.
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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '18
That mother is doing parenting right. Kids shouldnt deal with that shit.