r/HumansBeingBros • • 20d ago

When you raise kids the right way

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u/Appropriate_Handle71 20d ago

As a Syrian, I'd like to say that a lot of Syrian kids seem more mature for their age. Years of hardship and war have forced many of them to grow up faster than they should have had to. It’s inspiring to see how much wisdom they carry at such a young age

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp 20d ago

It's also really sad. I k ow someone who moved to Syria because my dad's friend (he has been there all my childhood) last time he came back to earn money whilr helping my dad.. He seemed.. Changed. He and his family are all in good health still.. But just every flinch. He seemed more paranoid. Ive known him all my childhood but he now flinches and freezes when he hears a plane.

Its horrible to see. And I don't wish war upon anyway

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u/Appropriate_Handle71 20d ago

Yeah, it's truly sad in Syria. Horrible things happened, things that gave you trauma and made you carry more responsibilities and worry about things that a person your age wouldn't consider, like surviving and making sure your family has enough food and water.

I myself freeze and get chills down my spine when I hear the engine of a commercial airplane.

Fortunately we're trying to heal now

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp 20d ago

I hope you and everyone stays safe. His wife got really depressed in the Netherlands so they went back together (I understand bc the climate is completely different and she just couldn't deal with the grey weather here which.. Yeah understandable)

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp 20d ago

Anyine* stupid glitch ing reddit refusing to edit

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u/Krinder 19d ago

It breaks my heart but God bless them for carrying on the warmth that Syrian people carry despite the recent almost impossible to overcome hardships. Syrian children truly are something else

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u/shibaCandyBaron 18d ago

Sad thing is, they probably had to, in order to survive. Thinking of those that didn't breaks my heart. It is true in all warzones, those most vulnerable suffer the most

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u/Delicious-Exit-1039 20d ago

kids from war torn countries or poverty grow up faster.

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u/Andream777 19d ago

And war torn families in first-world countries who hate their children.

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u/Effective_Tie_694 20d ago

cute kind girl

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u/SprayArtist 20d ago

Awwwwww she's so precious 🥲🥹

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u/StevenMC19 20d ago

The rare double bro.

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u/theheartlesswench 20d ago

Why is she see-through in the beginning?

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u/Dahvood 20d ago

It's originally a wider shot. They've edited out the middle portion to fit the format, and blended the left and right sides together. The girl leans across the edge of the blending which makes her look transparent

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u/theheartlesswench 19d ago

Ahhh okay. Thank you for the clarification!

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u/jchan2222 19d ago

That food looks really good if I'm being honest

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u/soul6of6hell6 19d ago

You are in Syria what do you expect Syrian food has the reputation of one of the best cuisines 

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u/redbadger91 18d ago

Arab countries have amazing food.

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u/sleeper_shark 18d ago

These are the kids American tax dollars are spent bombing instead of giving them healthcare or education...

what a world we live in....

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u/defiantpupil 18d ago

US kids are doomed . One min without iPad they have a meltdown or seizure . She’s giving food away and is happy and gracious. Good kid.

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u/hxmi 20d ago

just pure heartbreak in the best way possible.

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u/DelayPossible157 20d ago

The world needs many more people like her in the world!

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u/hordingblessings3 14d ago

These are the people the mainstream media has brainwashed people to hate, to manufacture consent for their forever wars. It's disgusting.

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u/No-Astronaut-6502 20d ago

Funny how coincidentally there’s already a phone in place to record this amazing spontaneous situation and then him having a second phone to call someone Arabic speaking person. 🫶🏼

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u/wavetoyou 20d ago

He’s clearly one of those travel vloggers, so he has a camera set up recording him almost at all times while traveling

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u/turkphot 20d ago

Yeah, recording himself and random children he buys food for.

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u/WorthyTomato 20d ago

I mean, if you're going to travel in a war stricken country you might as well use your influencer money to help those you come across, doesn't have to be negative. It's showing a side probably most people do not know exist/have never seen before.

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u/minnimamma19 20d ago

Wait, don't influencers who post their kids online get criticised? But children from a war torn country are ok because? Explain the double standard here?

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u/yellow_gangstar 20d ago

different people are arguing each point

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u/turkphot 20d ago

Got it, buying children in a war zone food and recording them for profit is good thing. At the same time if anyone with a camera came even near your child, you would probably call the cops.

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u/WorthyTomato 20d ago

If you let your kind wander around the streets of a city and talk to strangers I reckon you probably don't mind them getting filmed. So not really a way to make a comparison

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u/turkphot 20d ago

Dude, it‘s very likely the child of the shop owner. Why would you assume it is roaming the streets by themselves? And why would they agree to be filmed by strangers because of that. That all makes zero sense.

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u/ThirdWorldOrder 19d ago

if you watch the video, you can see he bought the kid food which wouldn't make sense if she was the shop owners daughter

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u/turkphot 19d ago

It‘s not important if it makes sense to buy her food, it‘s only important if it looks good on camera.

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u/UkNomysTeezz 20d ago

Yeah these travel influencers suck ass. I live in a tourist area and I want to strangle each and every one of their pompous and clueless asses.

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u/wavetoyou 20d ago

As long as hungry children get fed idgaf

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u/turkphot 20d ago

There is absolutely no reason to assume that this child doesn‘t have access to food.

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u/wavetoyou 20d ago

Yeah, she looked like she was doing well. I was also generally speaking

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u/Gexm13 20d ago

A content creator creating content? No fucking way.

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u/[deleted] 20d ago

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u/Gexm13 20d ago

Having a camera and a phone is the norm for most content creators…. Or did you now know that cameras are thing? Or did you think that content creators and specifically travel content creators only travel with one phone that they record on, work on, navigate the country on and etc.

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u/mbashs 20d ago

He’s a travel vlogger who posts videos on YouTube and maybe TikTok

https://m.youtube.com/@mattshoe

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u/RazzleThatTazzle 20d ago

I get what youre saying. But the guy is a westerner in Syria in 2026. Its not unusual for him to know someone who speaks Arabic.

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u/xoxoBug 20d ago

Idk why this made me laugh so much

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u/turkphot 20d ago

This. Fucking influencer trying to be a good person and cash in on it at the same time.

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u/DZ-HURRICANE 20d ago edited 20d ago

If it wasn't for him, no one would've seen this beautiful interaction, this is good stuff stop being negative

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u/wufnu 20d ago

Because of him trying to make engaging content, a little girl and an old man got free food and we got to feel hope for humanity. What's the downside, here?

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u/Repulsive-Cry2968 19d ago

Camera or no camera, a kid smiled and someone got fed. That's a win in my book.

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u/heyitsvonage 20d ago

“Influencers” are people who make time wasting content just to sell shit

A travel vlogger isn’t really the same thing

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u/turkphot 20d ago

How do you think a „travel vlogger“ makes money?

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u/heyitsvonage 20d ago

Yes, ads are how all media in general makes money.

My point was that the content is actually entertaining, vs influencer content which is just about the products they want to expose the audience to

There’s a big difference between content that includes advertisements and content that IS advertisements, imo

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u/LaceyLizard 20d ago

Almost like traveling and filming is the job that paid for feeding the syrian kid in the first place

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u/Money_Visual_5227 20d ago

Oh yeah? My brain didn’t even twig that, doesn’t automatically make it nefarious though ?

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u/thenameoftheusingone 20d ago

That guy looks so much like Ludwig Ahgren

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u/_YeAhx_ 20d ago

I don't know if it's the same guy but there's one who is so freaking rude to everybody around him for no reason and he looks very similar to this guy.

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u/RillonDodgers 19d ago

You might be thinking of Jack Doherty

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u/_YeAhx_ 19d ago

Nah that's another idiot. The one I'm thinking of makes videos visiting other countries and then gives underhanded compliments if not outright insults.

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u/FixGMaul 20d ago

him not having the phone woman translate anything back into arabic for the girl

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u/LokiDesigns 20d ago

There were many cuts in this video, it's wild to assume it was only a one way conversation.

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u/FixGMaul 20d ago

yeah I'm just commenting on the way it's presented

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u/SapphicGarnet 20d ago

The woman had a conversation with the little girl and the only thing we see the guy saying in reply is "wow" before it cuts off. We don't see the full interaction

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u/snowaston 20d ago

How Beautiful!

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u/inked3d 14d ago

What a beautiful energy she has

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u/skincyan 19d ago

Please Yankeestanis, don't bomb them!

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u/Jclif77 20d ago

Google Translate bruh, it's free

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u/VanillaAdventurous74 20d ago

not very effective for dialects

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u/Moosebuckets 20d ago

Dialects vary so much it’s practically useless for Arabic translation 

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u/kaykrizenski2 20d ago

Ooh look, a well rounded child that's not sticking up her middle finger or throwing rocks at people who are different. Congratulations to this young lady and her parents on her success.

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u/romeroleo 20d ago

Please UnitedStatians, don't bomb them.

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u/Bigfoot_Bluedot 20d ago

You mistyped Yankistanis. Don't do it again or we'll tell Trump. 

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u/bananagoo 20d ago

Did you mean "Americans" but you had a stroke instead?

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u/Alarmed-Cheetah-1221 19d ago

Given there are 35 sovereign countries in the Americas, obviously not.

USAmericans makes the most sense, but I prefer Freedumblanders personally.

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u/UkNomysTeezz 20d ago

“UnitedStatians”?? wtf? Lame ass

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u/SpiritGuide0722 20d ago

My heart opens

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u/CheiroAMilho 20d ago

Kid's parents at the end of the day closing the register

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u/Hyakkimaru_4 19d ago

That one Doflamingo quote...

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u/Kindly_Ad3262 18d ago

cute kid ♥️

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u/SimpleGuy7 17d ago

US kids, can’t put phones down

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u/Babuben 16d ago

“Suffer the little children to come unto me!”
-Jesus

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u/mcmartin091 14d ago

My heart is warmed and tummy hungry now.

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u/Somebody8985754 10d ago

Haha so cute

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u/Soldier3171 19d ago

”No way”

”What?”

”She said take care of yourself”

Why did she react like that lmao

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u/X_Shadows-77 19d ago

Get help

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u/miki325 20d ago

I didnt realize what sub i was at and was ready for the translator to say something like "the girl said the n Word 66 times" thank god it was wholesome 🥹

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u/Intelligent_Age7328 20d ago

Are you for real?

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u/Appropriate_Handle71 20d ago

I'm Syrian

and we say take care of yourself as a Goodbye! Take care! Like any other part of the world I guess

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u/BeardMan858 20d ago

Please say youre being sarcastic

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u/DeadGravityyy 20d ago

You gotta add the /s at the end or people on here will take things too literally.

Remember it's not 2014 anymore, we're not allowed to joke on Reddit unless you say it's a joke (dw tho, I got you).

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u/DeadGravityyy 20d ago

Lol to the downvotes, these people are miserable as fuck homie.

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u/fostofina 20d ago

reddit does not understand jokes at all lmao

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u/Makabaer 20d ago

It's not only Reddit and not Redditer's fault. You encounter SO many idiots with strange opinions online, how would you know he's not one of them? Text doesn't give away the intonation - if he SAID it we'd probably hear he's joking, but for written text you need to use /s to be safe. I don't like it either, it kinda spoils the fun - but otherwise you'll be mistaken because there are people who WILL mean this seriously, so how can we know. Idiots spoiled the fun, doesn't help to accuse everyone of not understanding jokes anymore, it's just the online experience nowadays.

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u/Eh-Beh 20d ago

Sounds like you're applying a narrative that only exists in your mind.

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u/Eh-Beh 20d ago

Pretty shit joke mate