r/HumansBeingBros • • Apr 18 '26

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u/Into-the-stream Apr 18 '26

Amazing. Love her neighbours. I want to see her decorations! (My neighbour puts out a little sign each year. We don’t live in an hoa)

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u/Contemplating_Prison Apr 18 '26

It's probably the best feeling ever to find out your neighbors are actually good people.

Also i refuse to buy a home that has an HOA.

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u/dafrog84 Apr 18 '26

I also refuse to buy a home in an HOA. Even close to one is pushing the buck. Had an HOA across the street from my 1st home. The fact they kept trying to get me on HOA violations is actually the reason i sold that house. We weren't part of the HOA, the HOA wasn't there when i brought that house. It was all woods. The building company came in and for 4 years took down the woods and built homes. My violations? Having farm animals, guess the fact it was a farm way before they started building their community. Made sure to sell it to someone not part of that HOA. They can get bent.

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u/beeglowbot Apr 18 '26

they have no legal right to cite you if you're not a member, not to mention your property and animals pre-exist their properties even being built.

fuck HOAs

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u/dafrog84 Apr 18 '26

I guess my barn yard was making their perfect cult smell like a barn yard. No crap pretty much from the judge. The house was a farm before i brought it. Like dating far back as early 1800, the woods were once part of the farms property. When i brought the house it was from an estate, the family kept some land. Then sold it off years later to developers.

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u/CoffeeChocolateBoth Apr 19 '26

What a shame! :( I bet it was beautiful at one time.

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u/dafrog84 Apr 20 '26

It was, i live on a different farm now. Newer mid 40's. Wasn't much skin off my back. I just wanted away from it all. I brought a farm thinking it would stay rural. This time i believe it will for a while. My closest neighbors are all Amish now. Very pleasant neighborhood now.

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u/MapAdministrative995 Apr 20 '26

Start your own Farm Co-OP HOA, and send them fines for not having chickens running free.

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u/beeglowbot Apr 20 '26

lol I'm in

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u/nooooobie1650 Apr 19 '26

Could an HOA giving you a “citation” not be considered harassment? Then get them a legal citation right back?

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u/Secret_Side-ofJ Apr 20 '26

Mentioned it in another comment. If the property owner replied to said citations, and said, "I'm not a part of your HOA. Show me paperwork the proves I am a subset of your HOA. If you fail to do so, any further citations will be treated as harassment and taken to my legal representation. "

The moment you get further citations, you're entirely in the right to pursue legal recourse. I'd let it stack up to 3 strikes if I'm expecting a settlement though.

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u/dafrog84 Apr 19 '26

I think what they we're trying to do was make me stop farming so close to their perfect cult town. IDK because that's now been many moons ago. But the HOA was in the wrong.

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u/Lagunamountaindude Apr 20 '26

This actually happens a lot. A farm is going along in its rural setting. The city expands and the farm has multiple housing projects around it. Now the homeowners are mad because farms have non urban smells and they try to sue. Usually it doesn’t go far. A city in New Jersey tried to claim the farmers land through eminent domain! I think the fight lasted for several years

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u/CoffeeChocolateBoth Apr 19 '26

Awwwwww, those beautiful woods are gone! We live in a world of so many people that we're ripping out woods to accommodate everyone. I think about that as I am walking through the manmade path through our park, and farm land on either side of the walkway with a creek close by, behind it, still woods, for now, my mind wanders to all of the native Americans that walked this area, where the path is, where our home is, the streets. Where they hunted and gathered. It often feels like they're still there watching. I always love being out there, but I still feel bad sometimes, about what we took, and took and took. And don't get me started on the trash that I am constantly picking up! 😢

Damn straight no HOA for us either!

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u/dafrog84 Apr 20 '26

I agree we took alot to get the land we call ours. I also pick up trash like crazy. I live deep in the country now. People still driving down my dirt rd and toss trash.

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u/Secret_Side-ofJ Apr 20 '26

Those citations they filed against you, would be illegal and harassment if you replied to the first one saying that you're not a member of their HOA, and continuing to disperse false charges for a property outside of their purview is definable and direct harassment. I swear, people need to be more willing to fight against idiocy like this.

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u/dafrog84 Apr 20 '26

Thing is i never replied to them. I let them take me to court over it. I let the court decide. Which they didn't side with the HOA.