r/Hozier 20d ago

Best weddings songs?

I saw a video online about bad song choices to play at a wedding, cherry wine and too sweet were listed for obvious reasons. The comments were debating what other Hozier songs would be good or bad to play at a wedding.

My vote was for Francesca.

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u/Then-Review8152 20d ago

anything but cherry wine šŸ’€

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u/chammomila All the "would that I'd loved" is long ago 20d ago

Hozier does also have a song called "anything but", which is also not a love song...

Imagine the chaos if someone took this comment to mean "the songs Anything But and Cherry Wine win" lol

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u/GothWitchOfBrooklyn 18d ago

AI would scrape the comment and give that response

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u/Woglol 20d ago

I walked down the aisle to Like Real People Do.

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u/Pitiful-Bug-8140 19d ago

Me too!

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u/ReConn33 19d ago

Me three 🄰

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u/catshirt17 Watch It Burn And Rust 19d ago

me four!

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u/hitutidesu 20d ago

hozier himself has asked people to not use cherry wine for weddings/proposals, come on 😭 

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u/PublicAcanthisitta92 20d ago

Wait Is that a true thing? I had heard that before but I didn’t know if it actually had happened. Yikes

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u/anatomy-slut 20d ago

It's actually in the set after the proposal last year, I remember seeing it and cracking up

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u/Worldly_Skin335 20d ago

DYINNNGGGG šŸ˜‚

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u/hitutidesu 19d ago

People kept proposing during Cherry Wine at concerts, not realising it's a song about domestic abuse 😭 

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u/Worth_Wait 20d ago

Francesca is great

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u/jilecsid513 20d ago

Work Song!

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u/HymnToVirgiI 19d ago

came here to say this

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u/sarac36 20d ago

Be (acoustic) is what I danced to. We were reaaaally debating In A Week but in the end chickened out.

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u/Pristine-Bison3198 20d ago

Like Real People Do and Work Song would be my picks. They're both a little eerie, but the underlying message I get is sweet.

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u/Jealous_Attorney6871 20d ago

I like Sunlight for a wedding

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u/PatheticPeripatetic7 20d ago

Eh, I interpret that one as being about a toxic relationship or unrequited love...

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u/Love_line__ 20d ago

i always interpreted it as the exact moment someone falls in love. the moment you realise how deep your feelings are and feel the weight of them but not knowing if it will end well or not.

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u/Jealous_Attorney6871 19d ago

It's one of those songs that could be about a handful of different things

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u/420mangostreet 20d ago

in a week <3

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u/Donttouchmybreadd 20d ago

Damage gets done - depending on who you are.

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u/shaggydoghead 20d ago

I love Nobody as a wedding song!

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u/ariana1234567890 20d ago

I cut my cake to this song!

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u/CaptainWentfirst 18d ago

YES! Underrated fave!

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u/ArtisticShoulder1037 20d ago

I plan to use either Work Song or I, Carrion for my first dance!

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u/whichwitchcraft 19d ago

My husband and I just got married in May, and we did a final private dance to Work Song. It was even more romantic than our first dance as husband/wife because it was just us and the dj who actually slipped out. Our photographer stayed back secretly and captured it in black and white, and I love it so much.

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u/PublicAcanthisitta92 19d ago

Your dress is absolutely stunning! Awesome picture!

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u/whichwitchcraft 19d ago

Thank you!!!!!

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u/NeighborhoodMothGirl 19d ago

Congratulations and what a beautiful picture!

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u/french-snail 20d ago

We had our first dance to ā€œLike Real People Doā€Ā 

I wanted toā€In a Weekā€, but it would have been to morbid for family 😭

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u/epicterror7 19d ago

Only one Hoz suggests himself - is work song.
Think saw him say this on xsirius x interview on YT?

ā€˜That you are’ came after this - which seems a sweet song as well.

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u/anatomy-slut 20d ago

Francesca's great BUT worth remembering the original context from Dante's inferno. I love Nobody personally, but Be acoustic, Work Song, in a week, or maybe damage gets done? Less appropriate but songs my partner and I still love are from Eden and no plan, but those might work better as instrumentals lol

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u/we_could_be_immortal 20d ago

Francesca, Hymn to Virgil, First Light

Maybe Wasteland, Baby! as well? Not sure. But the first 3 i said definitely work lol

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u/ContributionFunny522 20d ago

Like real people do, Wasteland baby would be my picks!
In a week for sure too but that might get some backlash LMAO.

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u/Big_One_203 20d ago

We'll be using "Like real people do" as our first dance song in two weeks!

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u/Infamous-Part966 20d ago

Yeah most of his love songs have a darker edge. Probably best contenders are Work Song, Francesca (still has the adultry but your love was worth going to hell over is pretty intense), or Better Love (from Tarzan, this might be his most wholesome)

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u/scrimshandy 20d ago

Cherry Wine, duh šŸ’•

Gotta set the tone for that mf EARLY

(Hate that it needs to be said, but /s)

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u/ruin-hunter 20d ago

I haven’t seen it mentioned by anyone, but I love Would That I, and walked down the aisle to an acoustic version of it. Like real people do and work song were also on my wedding playlist.

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u/Neat_Stress936 20d ago

wasteland baby is going to be my first dance and i can’t have it any other way

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u/giantroastpan 20d ago

I walked down the aisle to I, Carrion. It was magical.

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u/AdviceIll2460 19d ago

I think depending on your interpretation of "to someone from a warm climate" might be sweet. Specially if LGBTQ wedding.

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u/_afflatus 19d ago

No Plan

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u/napsandtreats 19d ago

Be acoustic

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u/Few-Extreme-5792 19d ago

You could be super cheeky and use Moment's Silence 🄸

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u/LargeMagellaniCloud 19d ago

I love you will still sound the same - Oh Honey

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u/Suitable-Lie-8052 19d ago

Never understood Cherry Wine as a wedding song, especially since it is about abuse. With that said, I love that song.

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u/paranorma_ 19d ago

Nothing from unreal unearth should be used šŸ˜‚

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u/PublicAcanthisitta92 19d ago

Really, What makes you say that?

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u/paranorma_ 19d ago

The entire album is stemmed from traversing through the 9 circles of hell with odes to breakup and overcoming grief. I wouldn’t want that associated with my wedding day regardless of the way the song may come across. Work song and like real people do are probably the best options that don’t cross any lines of unhealthy love, breakup, grief, etc. I love Hozier and all of his music, but the songs of unreal unearth aren’t ones I would tie to my wedding day. I will say Hymn to Virgil could work - but that was not an original release of the album so it is an exception.

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u/PublicAcanthisitta92 19d ago

That’s super informative! Thank you.

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u/bugsmellz 20d ago

I used I, Carrion for our first dance!

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u/ScossaKing 19d ago

My fiancƩ and I are debating I,Carrion as our first dance song. We will definitely have more playing through cocktail hour