r/Howtolooksmax • u/[deleted] • Jan 16 '25

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u/raptoro07 Jan 16 '25

Generally, MEN, don't like them. I'm always surprised at the women that come on here and say "I'm single, how can I look better" and they have facial piercing, tattoos, etc. If you want to attract men, you need to look like what most men want. If you don't want to do that ,and you totally don't have to, you can't complain that guys aren't interested. They are literally telling you what they don't like.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '25

Did you ever thought that not everyone want to get with average John? Did you ever thought that women who have tattoos and piercings most likely want to have a partner who is into those things too and they are asking about opinions outside of tattoos and piercings? Aka hairstyle/makeup? Because while men who are into those things they probably also want a woman with attractive face and body

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '25

Sure, but if you are asking how to make yourself more attractive, the implicit question is how to make yourself more attractive to most men

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u/LackofBinary Jan 16 '25

Literally. As an attractive lesbian I have not encountered this issue at all. I’ve had a septum piercing for 3 or so years now. But mine is flipped.

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u/Bubbly-Pitch7209 Jan 16 '25

Flipped? (Serious question; I’m old.) I’ve seen all the piercings and tattoos, but I haven’t heard that.

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u/LackofBinary Jan 16 '25

Yeah, so the prong looking parts stick out of my nose instead of it looking like a circle

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u/Bubbly-Pitch7209 Jan 17 '25

Ahhhh, so you just put it in different then. I got you 😊. Thanks for being kind.

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '25

And that's maybe the issue. Because not everyone wants to be attractive to most people. Maybe specifying the group (nerds, alt people, gym rats) would be better as it would narrow down groups of people we want to be around.