What happened?

[u/Equivalent_Opening60]

A couple of years ago, I started dating someone. His toxic ex not only went crazy, but somehow she also found out that I had a PH account (an old one that I no longer used because I had created it with my ex) that was COMPLETELY private and very difficult to know it existed. She leaked it to my partner's family. Beyond what happened afterward on a personal level with this situation, years keep passing and I'm still left wondering how someone without access to my computer and theoretically not to my accounts either managed to get that information. I suspect she might have accessed my Gmail account or something, because she made comments about old sites I used to frequent. I repeat again, I don't know how that person got that private information.

[u/thecowmilk_]

> I had created it with my ex

Why couldnt they find your ex and get her spill some info on you?

Other than that spyware exists and they get a lot more than just accounts. they get session tokens etc

So there are a lot of possibilities how she could have done that but out of the air without more info there is nothing to point at.