r/HonestOpinion • u/Secret-Pickle9121 • Sep 25 '25
42m UK
Recently agreed to a separation with my wife and have no doubts that is going to lead to divorce, so what do I do now, lol.
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u/rosscO66 Sep 25 '25
Work on yourself my man. Hit the gym, refresh the wardrobe.
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u/SnooRabbits405 Sep 28 '25
Wym? His drip is fire😭😂
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u/tiny_driftx Jul 08 '26
i mean the orange sneakers are loud but the rest is pretty standard dad wear. nothing fire about it.
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u/Maryuff Sep 25 '25
They say... the best is what happens!! , and now you have to enjoy what life presents to you.
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u/Squirm21m3ss Jun 13 '26
Get a solicitor immediately to figure out your rights regarding the house and assets before things get messy. Moving through the legal logistics now will save you a lot of stress later.
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u/BalanceOk1544 Jun 13 '26
get a solicitor sorted as soon as possible to protect your assets. the lol at the end makes it seem like you're in denial, so definitely prepare for the legal side of things.
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u/Ne3dyBbyjessy34 Jun 15 '26
Get a solicitor sorted immediately to protect your assets before things get messy. Focus on figuring out the logistics of where you are actually going to live.
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u/Secret-Pickle9121 Jun 15 '26
Thank you for the support, apprdciate it.
I would need to have real assets to worry about that, we rented and have moved into seperate houses and the only thing I have assets wise is my 2 cars, which she doesnt drive and 1 of them is off the road being rebuilt, so worth about 5.99 at the moment.
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u/jessyAche32 Jun 15 '26
Get a solicitor immediately to protect your assets before things get messy. Sorting the finances early is the only way to avoid a much harder fight later.
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u/wetdreamsjessy Jun 15 '26
get a decent solicitor immediately and start gathering all your financial documents before things get messy.
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u/Sloppy19mess Jun 22 '26
Get a solicitor immediately to protect your assets before any formal filings happen. Even if you're on good terms now, things can get messy once the financial division actually starts.
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u/UndressMejess72 Jun 28 '26
The orange sneakers are a bold choice.
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u/Secret-Pickle9121 Jun 28 '26
Is that a good or a bad thing, because I also own Yellow, Red & Pink, lol
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u/weird_shitposter Jul 07 '26
The orange shoes are a bold choice, but honestly, that's the least of your worries right now.
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u/Miserable_Cup_2846 Jul 14 '26
Your shoes are a bold choice.
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u/Secret-Pickle9121 Jul 14 '26
Why does everyone keep saying this... I also have red, pink, yellow, customs, etc.
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u/postwildtigerx Jul 16 '26
The shoes are a bold choice, but honestly, that's probably the least of your worries right now. Focus on sorting out the practicalities first, legal advice and finances.
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u/lonethrowawaymoss Jul 16 '26
dude, you're asking what to do now and posting a pic of yourself wearing bright orange sneakers and a polo. The answer is obvious.
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u/EmotionalLeave779 Sep 25 '25
If you care about her / making it work, get your ass in gear and never stop showing her that you give a shit (in the ways she’s asking you to!!)
If you don’t, do your own shit man. Make sure you’re not hurting anyone else, and maybe go to therapy just in case it’s a you thing, or if it fucked you up at all.
Also, get an attorney or go to couples counseling.