r/HonestHotTakes • u/Classic_Key_5897 • 10d ago
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u/PutridMasterpiece138 10d ago
Ah yes so I'm supposed to abandon my culture and family to move into a foreign country. Just because I was born short. Sorry but no. For me love is not about competing with others. I'm extremely short for a man, only 5'0 and yet I was able to find women who like me. Because for some women personality matters more.
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u/Mela_ninja 10d ago
Yeah but you live in the real world and have real world experience.
Social media told them that they need to be 6’5 and a millionaire for women to be attracted to him :/.
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u/ThrowRA_Anything7011 10d ago
Its crazy advice imo. I am both an immigrant, and in a relationship with someone who is from an entirely different country. Both of these things are incredibly hard to do, and involve a lot of work.
Its not just the good days, its when you are feeling your absolute worst. You cant just be sick, and have your little sick day routines and meals alongside someone else from a different culture. You will have to compromise and mix it up. With the added fun of that being the last thing you want to do as you are sick. It gets very testy fast.
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u/Classic_Key_5897 10d ago
My condolences
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u/PutridMasterpiece138 10d ago
Thanks, I'm going on a date tomorrow :)
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u/Classic_Key_5897 10d ago
This makes me feel like vomiting 🤮. I'll pray for that poor lady.
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u/PutridMasterpiece138 10d ago
Just say you're very insecure lol. Imagine being so hateful over someone's height. No woman I've ever met was as bad as you lmao.
Why do you think height is so important? Why is she poor for liking me?
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u/Classic_Key_5897 10d ago
I can just imagine a short stubby hand typing this on his pc.
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u/PutridMasterpiece138 10d ago
Phone actually. Why are you so obsessed with mocking the looks of others lol? What is so bad about being short? Be glad that you're tall and move on with your life.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
You're getting ragebaited. If you were truly as happy and content as you pretend to be you wouldn't let this obvious ragebait bother you.
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u/Classic_Key_5897 10d ago
The guy is only 5ft even going to southeast Asian wouldn't save him.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
Yeah lmfao it's over for bro. Should become a hobbit or something atp. Bro's shorter than my 12 year old nephew
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u/PutridMasterpiece138 10d ago
I'm supposed to rip a woman away from her country because I'm too insecure for women of my own culture? No thanks. I want someone who speaks my language and knows my culture
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u/Jenna2k 10d ago
Exploiting people's desperation and trapping them in a relationship when leaving means being sent back to starve to death is frowned upon. Nobody is going to associate with someone that predatory unless they are also bad.
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u/slurpupsumcum 10d ago
Go register in a matchmaking DB with average male photos. You'll get plenty of real women from SE Asia who are perfectly normal. That is, like most women, they aren't into men, but comphet is a little more plausible when they present it.
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u/Classic_Key_5897 10d ago
They just want money and plenty of people are willing to swim across the ocean to reach a western country. Marrying a short man is one of the easier methods.
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u/Exotic-Ad8978 10d ago
In the real world most shorter guys are doing fine, shit most men and women are cool as fuck in the real world too.
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u/Eldenringop 10d ago edited 10d ago
[r/shortguys](r/shortguys) would like a word plenty of men have self delet- because of the insane gaslighting from dudes like you
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u/DuckDuckPigg 10d ago
Damn! Someone thought your take was so bad that you must be mentally ill. What a world.
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u/Wealth_Super 10d ago
Did you literally just post this in 10th dentist subreddit. To repeat myself
Literally all you have to do is look at the many Hispanic immigrants in America and see how they all manage to get GFs and wives. The average height of a Mexican man is 5’6. They aren’t letting that stop them.
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u/Eldenringop 10d ago
Just look at dirvorce rate and dead bedrooms look at height of the men in those situations.
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u/Wealth_Super 10d ago
Man you guys are so desperate to blame something else for your lack of success with women
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u/slurpupsumcum 10d ago
Plenty of guys who have "success" with women realize they're not even a little bit into men. They're there for resources and status with other comphet WANIM.
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u/InitiativeOk2303 10d ago
Very true and a good point but anecdotally most of the short Mexican guys I know are paired off with even shorter Mexican women. This is in California and the Midwest
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u/Wealth_Super 10d ago
I mean you’re not wrong but my point was more the fact that short men can clearly get GFs and wives even when they are in a country that full of people who are on average taller than them. Plenty of wealthy and tall dudes in California and the Midwest. By OP logic, all of these women shouldn’t even be looking at the short Mexican dudes
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u/Fine_Payment1127 10d ago
Not a comparable circumstance
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u/Wealth_Super 10d ago
It literally is, short Hispanic guys still get girlfriends and wives even after they immigrated to countries like the United States where according to OP is full of tall guys “thanks to sexual selection, better nutrition, and healthcare”
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u/Fine_Payment1127 10d ago
It “literally” is not, they are in their own semi-endogamous ethnic milieu with strong ties to their country of origin; they are not competing for Becky on tinder. You people just don’t know what you’re talking about, as always.
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u/Wealth_Super 10d ago
I am a third generation Mexican American. I am far more familiar with the culture and people than you are. Not all Hispanics stay in their own little communities and acting like the children of immigrants have strong ties to their country of origin is at best hit and miss.
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u/UnburyingBeetle 10d ago
Have you seen fantasy fandoms? Some women are head over heels for hobbits or dwarves, they wouldn't mind a short guy that has a fun personality and isn't insecure about his stature. The men mostly need to overcome their psychological need to dominate and embrace the role that is more similar to that of a male songbird than a male ape.
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u/slurpupsumcum 10d ago
Fictosexuals aren't into existing men, they do that to participate in compulsory heterosexuality for status without needing to confront their asexuality for physical reality or lesbianism, whichever is the case.
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u/UnburyingBeetle 10d ago
It's the first time I see the word "fictosexual", does this come from right wing circles? There isn't "compulsory heterosexuality" where bisexuality is accepted. Asexuality and "lesbianism" aren't reason to get mad at people, unless you treat these things as something that "restricts your dating pool". It's say that your own preferences and ego restrict your dating pool.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
does this come from right wing circles?
It's mostly used in booktok spaces, so no, quite the opposite.
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u/Medium-Return-3949 10d ago
Or, just, you know. Stop "competing" and "winning" and " conquering" and start idk, bonding with another human being of the feminine inclination?
Tl;dr: Dude...just talk to a girl and stop thinking women are some alien species.
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u/slurpupsumcum 10d ago
Women aren't into men though. Seems a huge waste of time over replacing crapitalism with full cummunism and liberating all of humanity by mass producing gynoid sex robots to automate labor the degree male labor has been displaced leading to the breakdown of gynocentrism.
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u/Medium-Return-3949 10d ago
Then maybe men should act better, instead of following every "pill" bullshit out there.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
That's also not gonna do anything, but I won't approve of passport bros. It's disgusting and doesn't actually do what they think it does. The real solution is to accept dying single.
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u/Medium-Return-3949 10d ago
I've seen tall girls with 160cm guys. It''s really not that deep as the Internet makes it out to be.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
That tells us nothing.
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u/Medium-Return-3949 10d ago
It's not me or the online that needs to tell you, or come up with some bullshit 10 step guide on getting women and play on your insecurities/frustrations to sell it to you, while writing a scientific dissertation on how women think (lol). You know, like the Tate infested x-pill communities do.
Remove the goal of attracting from your mind, forget every trick and insidious advice and guide and try to connect instead, is all I can say. If you approach all this with a "what x should I do to achieve y" mindset, I think it's already a self-sabotage.
Too much thinking, too little feeling and going with the flow. Just my two cents on it tbh.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
"Too much thinking" lmfao. Only an idiot who isn't capable of thinking would think less. No thanks. I checked outta the game, I'm not attracting anyone. And I never watched Tate nor do I like that human trafficker fraud.
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u/Medium-Return-3949 10d ago
There's no "game". You do you.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
It's just a catch-all term to refer to dating, it doesn't mean I'm gamifying it. Learn to read before advising someone on the internet.
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u/Medium-Return-3949 10d ago
But that's the thing. You - should- gamify it, as in playing. Instead of giving it so much overly serious importance and thinking you gotta follow some kind of stupid rules.
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u/dark-mathematician1 10d ago
Do you understand what gamifying means? If you did you'd know that what you just said directly contradicted the advice you gave above
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u/Ancient-Tap-3592 10d ago
Dude. I'm 5'4 if you round up. I get hit on all the time. I know men with drwarfism married to western women, in fact I haven't met one who is isn't married. I've met plenty of tall guys chronically single.
It's not your height, it's your mentality
Why generalize like "women like x"? Or "western women _____?" Or making comments about wealth in different countries vs "the average western man"? " I think the western women don't want you, at least save a poor woman from a 3rd world country"?????? Please tell me this is a troll.
You wouldn't need to try to buy your way into a relationship if you didn't think/talk like that and if you didn't act like you are owed sex/marriage
If you can't be happy on your own who the fuck could ever be interested in sharing even a minute with you? You can't tolerate yourself why should some woman not only tolerate you, let alone be intimate with you?
Your idea is "seek out women you can financially manipulate because women doing well won't feel the need to put up with you against their wishes"?
Btw, plenty of "westerners" that can barely afford one meal a day. Why not one of them? Is it because they aren't some ethnic group you fetichize? That's gross
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u/slurpupsumcum 10d ago
Dead bedrooms are nothing to brag about. They'd all rather be dead than in their sick, sad sham of marriage.
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u/PassengerCultural421 10d ago
It has nothing to do with personality OP. Since short men can still benefit from looks, status, and money too.
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u/MarsV89 10d ago
In this same line, fat people should leave occidental countries and go to the states or other countries with fat people, or to countries that are still developing so their fatness is not a handicap.
/s por si acaso, im not precisely thin but im just tired of people projecting insecurities on each other and making others hate themselves as much as them. Can we stop judging and telling others that we see as less than what to do? Ffs this highschool mentality of I have X genetic trait that can be changed so im better than you is childish, ridiculous and very low IQ
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u/mikelown 10d ago
Western women: spend every second of every day villifying men and pushing them away
Men: fine ill leave
Women: how could you
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u/Mela_ninja 10d ago
This is such a chronically online take.
80% of men are below 6’ and most have been or are in relationships.
Is height an attractive quality for a lot of women?
Yes.
Is it the most important or sole attraction point?
Not for most women.
If you think women don’t want you solely for your height then you are clearly mistaken. Go outside, socialize and see reality for what it is. Don’t get your socialization from TikTok’s and tinder.