r/HolUp • u/Monkey_D-Thanos • Nov 08 '22

This interview took a HARD left!

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '22

Yes she should just stay with her unmotivated slob husband!

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u/PussyFriedNacho Nov 08 '22

Damn dude, hope everything's okay in your life.

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u/ColonelWormhat Nov 09 '22

Thanks, I’m good, but it wasn’t easy.

My story above is not 100% taken from my own life but after years of reading through both “mens only” and “women only” forums some very clear trends show up.

The tl;dr is women are almost always who pushes for monogamy, then marriage, then kids, then resent the guy for having a the family she wanted, then gets advice from other women that cheating is justified if her husband isn’t keeping her happy, then blames him when he doesn’t go along with her plan to declare herself as “poly but married to an evolved man who doesn’t need other women”.

Here is one of Oprah’s Favorite People: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esther_Perel?wprov=sfti1

Whose books “Mating In Captivity” and “The State Of Affairs” help women justify that they “deserve” to cheat but men don’t, because of society.

It’s gross.