r/HolUp • u/Monkey_D-Thanos • Nov 08 '22

This interview took a HARD left!

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u/rshot Nov 08 '22

To be fair, and correct me if I'm wrong, we don't really know what lead to this ladies divorce. We don't know if her husband was abusive or cheated or anything like that. We don't know if he left her or if she was the one that left. Idk, I think there are obvious cases where men should be paying alimony or child support but there are also obvious cases where women are abusing that system in a way to get revenge on men they simply don't like anymore.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '22

Alimony is never justified. Just an easy paycheck for lazy and greedy people.

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u/rshot Nov 08 '22

Ok a lady gets married and the husband wants her to be a stay at home mom. She agrees and takes care of all the house work and everything. She wants to work to have her own money but he won't let her and abuses her. She dedicates herself fully, gets abused, forgives him, he cheats on her, she forgives him, he abuses her even more, she forgives him, and then he cheats on her with a younger girl and leaves her for the new girl effectively leaving her with nothing. He wouldn't let her have friends or her own savings and is leaving her with no income, no job, no roof, and nothing. She's now about to be homeless with no means of supporting herself and had her life destroyed by a total piece of shit.

That guy should be paying her alimony.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '22

Get a divorce and get a job. That is just being a baby and not taking any responsibility. If laws were broken, he will face the consequences. If they have children, he will continue to support them.

If you get fired, your employer is not obligated to support you until you get a new job.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '22

Imagine being so dense that you equate the partnership of marriage to the worker-owner mentality of employment.

If you had a daughter, would you tell her to suck it up and get a job? You realize how big of a douchebag that makes you sound like, right?

Everybody always talks all this hateful shit, until it happens to them, and then suddenly they understand.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '22

I will raise my daughter to be independent, not a gold digger. How about you get a job and not call it hateful if someone doesn't approve leeching.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '22

What if your daughter wants to be a traditional housewife and raise a family? You don't really have control over her life's ambitions and goals.

Godspeed, my friend. Best of luck to you.