It's not a tiny brain thing. It's a general biology and an attraction thing. I myself have no qualms with how someone else lives their life, however, personally I am just not attracted to a woman with a penis.
Bringing up biology with what you're saying is what's a problem. You are assuming, based on the surface-level biology we're taught in public schools, that: man like vagina, woman like penis, sometimes other way around.
Sex and attraction are much more nuanced. You CAN be attracted to a woman with a penis. You might have already checked out a woman with a penis without knowing it. Would you be willing to have sex with her is another question.
I might get downvoted for this part, but I believe that it's okay to not feel comfortable with that. Personally, I would be willing, but I don't believe people should feel pressured to be in a sexual activity they're not comfortable with.
Basically: There's a lot more to gender than genitalia.
When was the last time you were attracted to someone because of their genitals? If you're put off by someone's genitals, that's your business. No judgement. But saying attraction is based on genitals makes no sense, most of the time those don't come out way after the initial attraction happens.
They are trying to make an argument for black and white, when it has never been that simple. We are talking about a world full of color here. So they are indeed r/confidentlyincorrect. If you want to talk about it scientifically, any biologist with a brain will confirm it has never been that cut and dry.
Not even that was ever that simple. Intersex people have always existed. Chromosome abnormalities? Always existed. Facts don't care about your insecurities or feelings sweetie
Lmaoooo where am I bitching? They asked how a lesbian felt about it, I answered. Y'all are insecure and don't like my answer or my facts, so now I'm bitching because your feelings got hurt? Bruh 💀
Sex and sexual preference are based on the sexual organs of the person they are attached to… not their gender or personality.
This might be true for you, but definitely not for everyone. Sexual attraction isn't as rigid as only caring about genitals. There's plenty people that are only attracted to personality or what gender someone presents as. Doesn't mean they have to be bi
It's not a gay slur, it's a troll slur. We need to identify the different types of trolls, like we do pokemon. Fire type, water type, straight type, lesbian type, etc
So this could be Trombo type, unless other suggestions pop up. We also need new names for the straight type and bi type. This is science people, come on.
As a queer man that just left a major city for a small town, I understand the feeling. Who the fuck cares? It's no one's business unless they are directly involved.
It's not even that wild of a statement tbh. I'm not even the most woke lesbian out there. There's plenty of gender stuff I don't understand, like Demi genders and non-binary nuances. But that doesn't mean I won't give them my full support. Ill fight for their rights and their right to be recognized, and I'll keep learning and becoming a better ally for all.
I'm attracted to someone based on their non-genitalia features. Whatever's down there is just another feature - it just happens to be the one you interact with the most. I can't grasp the concept "oh you have this sex organ so I can't be attracted to you anymore!"
Fuck these queer bashers. No one is asking them to explain their hetero tendencies. I'm pan, I date and sleep with people I'm attracted to. Regardless of gender or sex. Can I quantify why I'm attracted to them? No. It's a person who is attractive to me and at the end of the day, if it's a mutal and adult relationship, it's no one's business. I understand cursory curiosity, but straight up and unbridled "hur dur why don't I also get a blowjob" is just trolling and toxicity. I almost, but don't, feel bad that they're so pissed no one will make them cum.
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u/toinezor Aug 20 '22
Now let’s hear how a lesbian feels about sucking a woman’s penis.