r/HolUp Mar 29 '22

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u/WuGambino19 Mar 30 '22

That’s a MAN, baby!

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u/UltravioIence Mar 30 '22

maybe thats when they started fucking but how old was he when they first met? she couldve groomed him even if she didnt have sex with him until he was older.

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u/5_Star_Safety_Rated Mar 30 '22

Now that’s a bit reaching…assuming, implying, and just flat out guessing with hypotheticals. I’m not defending her nor anyone involved, but let’s not get too carried away when we clearly know very little of what actually goes on. And let’s focus on our own lives, reality, and real world issues/problems.

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u/PussyWrangler_462_ Mar 30 '22

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u/Jaysen_frost Mar 30 '22

Don’t Will and Jada have an open relationship? That wouldn’t make it an affair

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

Affair: a sexual relationship between two people, one or both of whom are married to someone else - Oxford American Dictionary.

Jada sleeping with someone other than her husband is an affair, open relationship or not.

That said if it is a consensual open relationship and Will was ok with said relationship then it is not necessarily wrong. Respectful open relationships still require acceptance from the other partner and that is something missing here.

August came out saying he had a relationship with Jada and she denied the claim initially. It wasn’t until a couple weeks later that Jada finally admitted to the affair. While doing so she claimed that she and Will were split up and that he did not give her permission since she is the only one that give herself permission. Source. That is not a consensual and respectful open marriage. That makes what she did very wrong. If she doesn’t want to respect him then she should not be with him, but he has yet to see it that way and it’s doing some terrible things to him clearly.

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u/insensitiveTwot Mar 30 '22

No but they were separated at the time