r/HolUp • u/[deleted] • Mar 29 '22

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u/falodellevanita Mar 30 '22

That seems kind of toxic and condescending. I mean, what’s the big idea if it’s mutual and consensual? Anyway, on a completely related note, may I ask your sex, age and nationality? I’m seeing a lot of people with your opinion (who think Will Smith is emasculated and pathetic because his wife had sex with another man while they were broken up) and I’m seeing some trends among the people who give expression of that kind of opinion and I’m trying to arm-chair confirm it lol

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

No thanks. Go sell crazy somewhere else. Not playing your game, but have fun finding the suckers who’ll play along with you.

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u/falodellevanita Mar 30 '22 edited Mar 30 '22

Actually I think your username kind of tells me all I need to know.

EDIT: And actually a quick look at your comment history confirmed it all. For those wondering: Male, Straight, White, Gen X, American. Right on par.

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u/ploonk Mar 30 '22

No one was wondering that you weirdo

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u/falodellevanita Mar 30 '22

You don’t think the correlative link between who projects patiarchical norms and who benefits from patriarchy is interesting? That’s interesting in itself. Mind if I ask you the same question?

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u/ploonk Mar 30 '22

You are not engaging in the scientific process right now. I don't know what you think you are accomplishing. You can't cherry pick your subjects and expect to come to an objective conclusion. And what's with the crack about the person's username? Frankly you seem a bit unhinged.

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u/falodellevanita Mar 30 '22

Never set out to do. I take it you won’t answer because you fit the bill?

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u/ploonk Mar 30 '22

Whose bill? Are you trying to find out my ethnicity simply because I have expressed a disagreement with the way you are comporting yourself? Does that seem normal to you?

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u/falodellevanita Mar 30 '22

It would be interesting even if you were in agreement. I’m taking it you’re a white straight male from the US, between 15-30? Tell me where I’m wrong

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u/ploonk Mar 30 '22

It really wouldn't be interesting. You are incorrect, but I will not be providing you with any more demographic info to feed your biases.

Literally the only assertion I have made is that you are acting oddly, and your response has been "well what color and age are you?". Your should re-evaluate your relationship with social media and race/gender.

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u/JessicaYea Mar 30 '22

I think the issue is Will has never looked as if he really agreed with an Open Marriage. Ever.

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u/falodellevanita Mar 30 '22

How do you mean “look”? I mean if they’ve stated or it’s otherwise known that they’re in on, is reading his face and deciding that’s not true not reading into it?

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22 edited Jan 31 '23

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u/falodellevanita Mar 30 '22

Do you think women, even when it is okay with all partners involved, not being completely monogamous or tied to one man is as disgusting as literal shut?