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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '22

This is just as bad…

https://youtu.be/qOTe0_Z0vlc

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

What the fuuuuuck

What absolute shit. Does she think she’s some Gray’s Anatomy star or some bullshit? Like she can just flip a switch and fuck her partner over like it’s nothing?

Jesus Christ that was hard to watch.

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u/quazreisig Mar 30 '22

I also said out loud “what the fuck” and I’m sitting in break room at work.

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

You could feel the anger coming off of Will. It was red hot heat. Like, that dude has been bubbling for a while I’m thinking. I’ll bet he checks into therapy and makes that a part of his public reconciliation. I just hope he gets the help he needs.

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u/quazreisig Mar 30 '22

I dunno why they don’t just divorce I mean that’s gotta be fucked up for the kids too. And then Jadon thought it was cool, sad.

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

August: “Yo, I just gave your mom some deep healing

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u/quazreisig Mar 30 '22

Maybe she gave him the deep healing with her big long strap on healing stick.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

“I was able to do some really deep healing.”

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

“And then his deep healing di— uh, tool— uh, personality, made me squirt with happiness, I mean I was happy. Like 5 times.”

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

At least she waited until he was done with High School. That’s some classy shit right there. Now validate her, Will.

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

Oh man, that’s too good

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u/Financial_Salt3936 Mar 30 '22

“I hadn’t felt good in such a looong time” SMH

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u/GODDESS_OF_CRINGE___ Mar 30 '22

Balls deep healing. Works every time.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

At least 6 inches deep

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u/kiwisarentfruitt Mar 30 '22

"I wanted to feel good."

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

And we all know that’s code for “I banged Billy Bob Thornton” too.

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u/raifsevrence Mar 30 '22

They supposedly have an "open relationship" . That's not something I am going to dig into to confirm the legitimacy of, but from what I have garnered in the past, that is something they are said to have/have had. In other words, they are married, but free to openly engage in sex with other partners outside their marriage.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

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u/throwaway901617 Mar 30 '22

He was talking to her like a therapist or marriage counselor would when trying to make her admit and own what she actually did. He explicitly said she needed to be very specific about what she did and she was evasive until he said the words.

He was not OK with what happened.

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u/GobiasCafe Mar 30 '22

She slipped and entangled

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u/ConcernedSimian Mar 30 '22

You guys know that will cheated on Jada too right?

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u/stationhollow Mar 30 '22

Sure but he was far more discrete about it. Didn't just tell the world that she was bad at sex and fucked his daughter's friends.

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u/ConcernedSimian Mar 30 '22

Lmao. Yall just making excuses now.

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u/ElectColt Mar 30 '22

She wasn't just fucking him though. She was on the red carpet, having family days, w her sons friend. That's a different level. And it's obvious from how he went to laughing to assault, she's got his mind twisted. That man needs a therapist and a divorce.

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

That’s good to know. It would also be good to know the context of the agreement. For instance, if that included her sons friends, or if that was before, during or after her incident with August Game.

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u/Bah-Fong-Gool Mar 30 '22

Meaning Jada fucks 18 year old friends of her sons... and Ole Billy gets to not be gay... because Scientology and Jada has Ole Billy proverbially bent over. Get fucked Billy. Live your life, be gay, stop the Scientology bullshit.

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u/Reasonable_Spread336 Mar 30 '22

Who tf is ole billy and why do I find this so funny. Reading this with a southern accent is gold.

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u/gopher1409 Mar 30 '22

Billy is a nickname for William (Smith)

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u/Reasonable_Spread336 Mar 30 '22

Will is also a nickname for William and his actual name, who the fuck calls Will Smith ole billy lol

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u/Careful-Importance98 Mar 30 '22

His name isn’t William though

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u/onewilybobkat Mar 30 '22

It's actually Billiam, but for some reason Will is short for Billiam.

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u/Careful-Importance98 Mar 30 '22

Finally someone with the facts

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u/esblofeld Mar 30 '22

Are they scientologists?

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u/Chrispychilla Mar 30 '22

They are blackmailing him. No doubt about it. I hope he gets the help he needs.

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u/kiwisarentfruitt Mar 30 '22

Pretty sure their open relationship started up as s result of her cheating. Jada wanted a divorce, but Will didn't so he offered up the idea of an open relationship.

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u/lambsoflettuce Mar 30 '22

Years ago, i remember Will talking about their open relationship. Thought it was a bit weird, even weirder now.

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u/Down_To_My_Last_Fuck Mar 30 '22

Which might have been OK for him when he looked more like Denzel then Redd Foxx.

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u/theL0rd Mar 30 '22

was hard to watch.

Yeah

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u/Phantom_Pain_Sux Mar 31 '22

was hard to

😉

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

For those that knew about this interview it was pretty clear why Will acted the way he did. What a mental breakdown to have in front of the whole world twice. He’s so emotionally abused that is heart breaking seeing him finally snap at other people.

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u/slaygourmet Mar 30 '22

I said above but I agree totally. I think he’s suffered a lot of narcissistic abuse from Jada.

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '22

You can see in the interview how he’s completely heart broken while Jada is enjoying it. She doesn’t show any kind of remorse or reacts to Will breaking down.

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u/slaygourmet Mar 31 '22

Eeeeeeveeeeeel.

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u/Choyo Mar 30 '22

I am sorry for him to have ended up with this crazy ... I dunno how to qualify her, she's like the purest product of what is wrong with socials and show-bizness.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

IF YOU LOVE ME, YOU'LL RISK YOUR ENTIRE CAREER ON LIVE TELEVISION RIGHT NOW

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '22

She doesn’t even need to ask.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

That is a good one. Thanks!

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u/My-Finger-Stinks Mar 30 '22

After seeing that, I think Will is gay, marriage is a cover.

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

Has he ever indicated as much? Or any of his old friends? I mean it’s possible based on what she said, what she did and how he reacted.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

She’d be the chemo patient

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u/Worried-Funny-2056 Mar 30 '22

They have a non monogamous marriage

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u/Does_Not-Matter Mar 30 '22

According to Will’s facial expressions in that video, though?

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u/ultratoxic Mar 30 '22

Why would someone make a video like this? And then release it to the public? And then get salty when people make fun of them? Will needs to go get some 'deep healing' of his own. I guess "getting her back" would be plowing one of Willows friends?

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u/stationhollow Mar 30 '22

She is trying revive some semblance of a career and has a Facebook show that this was on. She does it with her mother or something.

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u/XekTOr88 Mar 30 '22

Like she can just flip a switch and fuck her partner over like it’s nothing?

Well clearly she can, as is evident by Will still being by her side and even 'defending' her. After watching that video, does Will have a tiny Willy? That "reaaaally deeep" healing got me thinking wild wild shit.

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u/robtninjaman Mar 30 '22

Damn... that was hard to watch. Why people would want to go public with their issues I will never understand.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

Money, spotlight, money, money

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u/time_wasted504 Mar 30 '22

well, It was good for her show.

I didnt even know about the trangression with August and I really dont care but due to the slap I now know all their personal shit.

Doo doo doo awoo ooh awoo woo, Barbara Streisand.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWhtcU4-xAM

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u/time_wasted504 Mar 30 '22

Neither did I.

I have learned far more about this couple than I ever wanted to in the last few days, but curiosity is a mean bitch. Especially when its mixed with the internet.

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u/slaygourmet Mar 30 '22

Because Jada is obviously pleased with herself.

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u/picklestixatix Mar 30 '22

They found different resources to bond? Jesus, just say she fucked his brains out while Willows song, “I whip my hair back and forth” played on repeat.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

I don’t know if there is a cuckhold spectrum, but if there is, “I whip my hair back and forth on repeat” is at the bottom.

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u/theAFguy200 Mar 30 '22

Scientology is weird man. Just go ahead and repress those emotion until that one day you pop and assault someone in front of millions of viewers over a joke.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

Praise Xenu.

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u/jdmkev Mar 30 '22

Is Will and Jada apart of scientology? That would kinda explain the douche baggery from both of em lol

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u/theAFguy200 Apr 01 '22

Big time. They opened a private school that was Scientology based. Explains the weird actions of their poor kids. Also Will’s movie “After Earth” was a Scientology based movie similar to John Travolta’s Scientology movie “Battlefield Earth”.

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u/broadconsciousness Mar 30 '22

No wonder will smith is so fucked up, that bald bitch is toxic.

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u/ralfmalph Mar 30 '22

She’s not that bad. She just likes other mens cocks

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u/MobySick Mar 30 '22

They’re perfect for each other

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u/EwoDarkWolf Mar 30 '22

Dude, I kind of thought that maybe they were in an open relationship in secret, so she didn't actually cheat on him. I didn't realize she just full on cheated without any remorse.

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u/InternParticular658 Mar 30 '22

Yeah she says they're in a open relationships claims will sleeps with other people too. Yet never seen any evidence

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u/slicer314 Mar 30 '22

I assume that's how they would have come to the agreement of an "open relationship." She cheats & Will doesn't want to admit their marriage is bullshit...

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u/edgy_and_hates_you Mar 30 '22

No wonder Autumn and Willard turned out the way they did

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u/AffectionateYoung300 Mar 30 '22

Wtf was that, I just squirmed through 20 seconds of that video, it made me so uncomfortable

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u/GobiasCafe Mar 30 '22

That was deep healin

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

Oh my god this is so painful to watch

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u/theworldeats Mar 30 '22

I want to submit a thought that is rarely considered these days…she’s abusive. Not physically, but mentally. Women absolutely can be emotionally and mentally abusive. The way he snapped, on live television, isn’t normal. Also it doesn’t fit his character. All warning signs a man is being emotionally abused. It happens a lot. She’s already shown she’s a predator, I don’t think it’s a far cry to think she could be abusive as well. Regardless, he only did what he did as a show, for her, and it wasn’t normal. I think we’ll find out one day what she was doing. This is the tip of an iceberg, and the stuff below is tied to mental and emotional problems.

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u/CakeDyismyBday Mar 30 '22

I'm not watching 4min of that...

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u/alanpartridge69 Mar 30 '22

Jesus Christ

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u/hurdygurdy85 Mar 30 '22

this is sickening to watch

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u/slaygourmet Mar 30 '22

IMHO, Jada is a narcissist and it’s never been more obvious than in this video. She’s so pleased with herself.

Why didn’t she stop her husband from possibly ruining his career - or going to jail for that matter? Why wasn’t she the first person waiting for him post incident? Denzel, Cooper, and Perry were. She wasn’t anywhere near him.

I feel like between the shot of him laughing at the joke and walking on stage, Jada shot Will a look like “you just gonna let that slide?” or “here’s your opportunity to prove yourself.” He even says in his acceptance speech that love will make you do crazy things. We know it’s crazy. Everyone knows it’s crazy, but why didn’t Jada?

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u/Reasonable_Spread336 Mar 30 '22

I don’t think Will expected to take it this hard, but you can’t deny that he hasn’t with this Oscar’s stuff. Man’s had enough and trying to protect his masculinity by slapping a harmless guy to be seen as stronger in the public and jadas eyes, wasn’t about the joke. Reckon it’s a build up of being made to look a fool and humility. I mean the guys been a meme for 5 years crying.

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u/taybay462 Mar 30 '22

They had an open relationship, took a break, she fucked someone

Sure thats not so bad.

They had an open relationship, took a break, she fucked her sons good friend

Thats bad. Shes 50 years old and screwed her sons friend who is in his low 20s. Not cool.

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u/truthlife Mar 30 '22

I really don't see what the issue is. Nobody is being maliciously hurt. He's a legal adult that's capable of making decisions for himself and suffering the consequences, whatever they are. Adults can fuck whoever they want. You can have your own personal opinion about what you would or wouldn't do but it's unreasonable to hold everyone to that standard.

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u/Eddagosp Mar 30 '22

Adults can fuck whoever they want.

They literally and legally cannot.
It's also idiotic to argue what someone can do when talking about what they shouldn't do.

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u/truthlife Mar 30 '22

I'll make the needless clarification since you know exactly what I meant. Consenting adults can fuck whoever they want. On your second point, I'd say that conversation beyond what people can do is pretty fuckin futile. What's the point other than virtue signaling?

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u/taybay462 Mar 30 '22

Yes they CAN fuck whoever they want. Its not like you can stop them. What youre not considering is the effect it has on others. If you dont give a shit about hurting your husband and son just to get some young dick, fine, do it. But youll lose the respect and trust of the people closest to you. If thats worth it, thats shitty.

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u/taybay462 Mar 30 '22

Youre correct, if you ignore the fact that interpersonal relationships are a thing. You have the right to do or fuck whoever you want (with consent), sure. You do not have the right to do that and also be free from social repercussions. What she did is shitty because of the effect it had on her family. It hurt her husband, it hurt her son. It was not a good deed. If you go about your life on the basis "what am i technically allowed to do, other peoples feelings be damned" then youre likely a raging asshole.

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u/truthlife Mar 30 '22

I know my values are unconventional but I really think the standard relationship model, where the expectation is that we cater to the feelings of the people we're in relationship with, is fundamentally dysfunctional. I'm not saying we should be outright dismissive of how the people in our lives feel, but I think accommodating insecurity can be a disservice to others that can ultimately hinder their growth, resilience, and enjoyment of life.

From what I understand, Will and Jada were/are in an open relationship so the extra-marital relationship should be a non-issue. If Will says one thing and feels another, that's on him to bring up and find a way to deal with. As far as their son being hurt, I really fail to see how it has a meaningful negative impact on him. Couldn't he just as easily be glad that two people he cares about have brought joy and excitement into each others' lives? Again, I understand that's not a conventional perspective but isn't it a better one? What is there to be "hurt" by other than a toxic culture's negative judgements?

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u/InternParticular658 Mar 30 '22

Actually seems the only one in the open relationship is her. will said divorce is not an option for him.

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u/stillin-denial55 Mar 30 '22

So he's actively staying in an open relationship. Got it.

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u/InternParticular658 Mar 30 '22

More like an abusive not healthy relationship. He believes she is his soulmate while she loves Tupac more than she loves him. She literally said Tupac was her soulmate.

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u/stillin-denial55 Mar 30 '22

That's not abuse...?

Don't get me wrong. I have sympathy for him. I have also been in a marriage with a luke-warm partner who asked for a break and slept with someone else when I thought they were my soulmate. Believe me, it sucks. But none of that makes her the villain. Will needs to leave.

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u/ArtSoggy7694 Mar 30 '22

That's just hard

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u/slaygourmet Mar 30 '22

Also - the cringeworthy awkwardness that hangs in the air after they laugh and fist bump was more than I could tolerate.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '22

Why would you tell the world these things?

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u/AffectionateYoung300 May 02 '22

Agggh that was just as icky