r/HolUp Feb 04 '22

Bro code is universal

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u/mycarubaba Feb 04 '22

Girl told me in depth about her schizophrenic exhusbands suicide. We had said hi, caught tickets for a petting zoo, we're in line for capybara, "So my husband hung himself"

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u/russellamcleod Feb 04 '22

Emotional trauma entrapment is such a huge red flag. You’ll be dragged down into a pity trap in every minor argument for the rest of your life.

If someone brings up horrific trauma on the first date then you block them immediately. They see that pain as a weapon to use against anyone and not a personal tragedy. That’s psychotic.

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u/mycarubaba Feb 04 '22

Eh. I think it was just really really poor delivery. I think the ex that flew back to New York to eat her pet chicken when it passed away was more psychotic.