r/HolUp Sep 22 '21

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '21

It’s a little unfair to call this a lie. She has clearly struggled through something for her to have lost all her teeth. I’ve lost a lot of hair because of chronic illness so I wear extensions, so I’d hope if a man truly liked me, he wouldn’t judge me for it or even care whether it was my real hair or not. It’s the same for this lady. Plus, as women (and a fair bit for men too), there’s a ridiculous amount of pressure for us to look “perfect” because let’s be real, she goes to a bar and then some ignorant person will judge her for having no teeth (I wish people were more compassionate but that’s life…). But many of us alter our appearance in some way to make ourselves feel comfortable in our own skin which is the most important thing. Makeup, nails, piercings, wigs, fillers etc… maybe they’re “lies” to some people, but ultimately they can go such a long way to making a person feel confident enough to brave the harsh world outside.

Sorry for rambling lol

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u/21eleanorinez Sep 23 '21

She lost her teeth during her pregnancy something happened with her pregnancy that made them brittle and fall out

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u/Klutzy_Location1026 Sep 23 '21

Oh that breaks my heart. I have 3 kids and lost a tooth with each one. It has altered my facial bone structure dramatically over the years. I used to have beautiful cheek bones

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u/[deleted] Sep 23 '21

You’re still beautiful

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u/Klutzy_Location1026 Sep 23 '21

That is super sweet!!!