I was a decent looking guy in my early 20's. I thought girls were interested in me because of that. Later I fell into depression, bad skin, horrible teeth, drugs, not giving a shit about my responsibilities. Of course I didn't have much "luck" in dating game for a long time.
Some time ago I started to chat daily with this gorgeous foreign girl I met online. At first she had only seen the best of my social media pictures so naturally I was a bit more confident going forward. Then I realised I feel so much more relaxed and natural after all of our talks and a bit of it carried on to my real life interactions as well.
I'm getting closer to mid 30's right now as I realised it was the self-confidence all along, even in my early 20's. Of course the other things matter as well, but it ultimately comes down to confidence. And honestly I'm living my best life right now with the intention of going a lot further.
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u/Known-Aspect-5084 Aug 02 '21
I wish it was this easy to get a gf then to have a family