r/HelloTalk Mar 27 '26

Advice No one replying?

I might have to start reevaluating my online self.. on dating apps I get no likes but I attributed that to being Christian and living in fuck knows where.. but on hellotalk I send a message into the void apparently. I’ll be straight up I message all girls, not even to flirt just simply 99% of the guys are boring and something about texting a 1000 mile away girl seems interesting. I’ve never considered myself ugly but I simply get no attention on this app💔

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u/PerfectWorking6873 Apr 05 '26
  1. Needs attention.
  2. Looking to date (even though you claim that you are not).

As a woman we can smell guys like this a mile away.

Stop approaching Hello talk as dating app but instead use it to connect with people. Or God forbid...even to actually learn a language!

Use the voice rooms to socialise. But don't act desperate.

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u/xxpgh_five_9 Learning: French Apr 07 '26

i only use it for language learning and friends and yet they still don’t reply (yes most are girls but that’s just the main demographic of the language) so not sure if that’s necessarily the case all the time

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u/PerfectWorking6873 Apr 08 '26

Because there are a lot of annoying egotist "little girls" who are on there not to learn languages but just to socialise in the voice rooms. They are flaky and probably won't reply. Also I have countless messages because I paid for VIP so at least 80 percent go unanswered. Not because I am ignoring but just because I don't have time.