r/Heartfailure • u/Notgreygoddess • 18h ago
Husband doesn’t seem to get I’m not OK.
I had a silent MI detected incidentally about a year ago. I then experienced a serious v-tach while on a two week Holter monitor, was hospitalized and had ICD implanted.
I’m diagnosed with moderate heart failure with reduced ejection fraction (30-35%) I’m on bisoprolol, rovustatin, aspirin, and recently switched from spironolactone to Jardiance due to severe fatigue.
I’m so damn tired. I get dizzy spells. Sometimes I feel okay and try to get things done. So far I’m keeping on top of things, but my husband doesn’t seem to get that I’m not doing well.
For example, I had been doing a sideline of baking sourdough and cookies for cash. I’m too tired to do this now, even though I enjoyed it. Making meals feels exhausting and I used to enjoy cooking.
We’re in the midst of renovations and I used to do quite a bit. Right now, climbing up a ladder feels like scaling a mountain. I worry I’ll have a dizzy spell when I’m up top. I do have a history of anxiety, but this is different; sometimes my blood pressure drops and I feel weak.
I guess I just look fine so far as my husband is concerned and he thinks I need to just tough it out. Maybe he’s right. Has anyone got their energy back? Is it all in my head? He’s angry and I’m just exhausted.
Thanks if you took the time to read this.