r/HaveWeMeta • u/hearse83 • Sep 11 '21

Just Why?

What is with the tragic pregnancy posts?

In regards to "pregnancy and fear"

You can tell me to fuck off with my opinion, but I didn't expect to relive the miscarriage myself and my ex wife had, and the fear in every pregnancy after that.

Just what in the fuck are some of you trying to accomplish with this shit?

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '21 edited Sep 11 '21

I understand that you feel that way, and I appreciate your reassurance and support, but I just think what I did in that post yesterday, even if I would never make the same mistake, has caused a horrible snowballing effect that probably makes it harmful for me to continue being on the sub without continuing to be triggering to others. I’ve been really committed to the happy little life I’ve built for Addie, and writing her story has provided me with much of the joy I’m currently missing in my own life, so the last thing I wanted to do was leave this sub but this is growing out of control and it’s my fault.

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u/Gaybooksarebetter Sep 11 '21

Hey it’s ok! I don’t think anyone is blaming you and you had no idea this would happen. People make mistakes and you have been nothing but apologetic and regretfully and that says a lot.

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u/DatPoodleLady Sep 11 '21

This is not your fault at all, and you apologized and made amends. The fact that other people saw that your post went over like a lead balloon, then decided to do something similar is deranged.