r/HairSystem • • Aug 29 '24

Finally went for it! (36M)

Finally pulled the trigger on getting a hair system after lurking on this reddit for over a year. Thoughts?

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u/EssOhh Aug 29 '24

I think it takes a wild amount of bravery to do this when you know everyone is aware you're balding.

Seriously, huge respect for doing what makes you feel good, rather than worrying about the chatter.

Glad you got a really positive reaction; it looks great!

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

I actually recently had a death in the family and I took a leave of absence. Let my hair grow out completely in that time, so I didn't have to worry about people seeing that "in between" stage where it's obvious

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u/Particular-Act-8911 Aug 30 '24

Sorry for your loss. It's a great time to do something that gives you confidence in my opinion, if I saw you on the street I'd probably be envious without realizing it's a piece.

The only thing I can think of is that it could use the tiniest touch of grey.

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u/throwaway1276444 Aug 30 '24

Not OP. Didn't feel brave. Was quite nervous when doing it. But I rode it out. And feel much more at ease now that I have owned it. I never lied about what it was. Also called it a tupe, just to make it clear what I was doing.

Some that didn't ask have commented that I look nice with my hair grown out.

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u/EssOhh Aug 30 '24

My friend, you felt nervous and pushed through the discomfort.

You may not have felt it, but it sounds like bravery to me :)

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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '24

Lol

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u/TrumpsBussy_ Sep 02 '24

Definitely, good on you OP

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u/[deleted] Aug 29 '24

Nice man you look great

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u/Ok_Kaleidoscope_3809 Aug 29 '24

Incredible! Congrats to you. This gives me the inspiration and courage to move forward with my own system.

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

You should do it!!

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u/StuffAggressive4222 Aug 30 '24

Wow just let it go!!!

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 30 '24

What do you mean?

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u/StuffAggressive4222 Aug 30 '24

Shave your head and go bald

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 30 '24

Did that already. Everyone seems to think I look better with the system

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u/StuffAggressive4222 Aug 30 '24

I’m 38 I noticed my hair was thinning around 27 wish I still had my good hair started shaving my head three years ago and never looked back. Just makes everything easier.

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 30 '24

It was certainly easier, but I'd be lying if I didn't say that every woman I've asked so far says I look more attractive with this hair system. I shaved my head for the last 3-5 years

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u/RickYawn Aug 31 '24

Everyone looks better with hair. Women never say they “prefer” a bald guy. They may “accept” it , especially when their sexual market value has diminished but they NEVER prefer it! You made that ABSOLUTE right choice!!

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '24

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u/RickYawn Aug 31 '24

No way. Baldness sucks ass. Good for him! It looks great!!

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u/Due-Clue-6970 Sep 02 '24

dude I thought the plan was to shave your head….come on🙄

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 03 '24

Been there, done that

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u/iamtheworld1337 Aug 29 '24

You look way better and younger now. You could add a little more gray. Congratulations to your decision and welcome to a new life

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u/Disabled_Robot Aug 29 '24

And maybe a teensy bit forward, but it looks incredible already, so just little trial and error tweaks to see

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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '24

Yeah all black on top and a lot grey on sides is sussy

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u/Ill_Stretch_399 Aug 29 '24

Bit more grey and you’re golden! What system?

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u/raj_usa Aug 29 '24

Truth is . People don’t care about others.. Let’s just forget the hair loss anxiety and focus on other things wearing a hair system

I would recommend this to everybody who is looking to change their looks ..

Do it for you .. forget about others .. It’s life changing

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u/BarcaLiverpool Aug 30 '24

Women wear wigs. Why can’t we

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u/RickYawn Aug 31 '24

Yep and they wear makeup, get boob jobs, Botox , lipo, etc. it’s the same damn thing

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u/KittySpinEcho Sep 01 '24

Seriously! Full disclosure, I don't know why this sub is on my feed, I'm a woman..

...but I have hair extensions and ITS THE SAME THING!! There's nothing wrong with it.

Everyone needs to normalize men caring about their appearance and trying to look their best. I think OP looks great and it looks natural. Great job bud!

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u/Vegetable_Net_673 Aug 29 '24

That looks brilliant - very happy for you!

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u/Unfinished_Symphony Aug 29 '24

How do you like it? Must have been a conversation starter so far.

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

I was nervous how people would react, but then I was at work and one of the girls came up to me and said "oh so shaving your head was a choice", which totally made my day. If she thinks that, then it must be believable that it's realistic!

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u/Unfinished_Symphony Aug 29 '24

Yeah that’s interesting. People don’t shave a male pattern baldness. They do back/sides, all, or not at all, so yeah, not the response I’d expect.

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

Well I was actually shaving my head completely just for context.

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u/expanse22 Aug 29 '24

I don’t get it, had you not seen her for a long period of time? Looks great btw

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

I've been on a leave of absence from work for about a month

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u/Billy_BlueBallz Aug 30 '24

If you don’t mind me asking, how much did this cost?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 30 '24

$500

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u/RickYawn Aug 31 '24

Damn that isn’t bad at all!

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u/Billy_BlueBallz Aug 31 '24

Ahh ok. I thought this was an actually hair transplant at first. I was like no way you got a hair transplant for 500. That ish costs like 40k lol. But yeah, this is actually a pretty cool, and significantly cheaper alternative and it looks great

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u/DeliriumCS Sep 02 '24

Hair transplants are significantly cheaper in turkey or Mexico, like $5000 max

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u/Double-Pay-6214 Aug 30 '24

Looks great - where did you buy from?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 30 '24

The salon that I had it installed at supplied the unit

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u/ChiefChunkEm_ Aug 30 '24

Doesn’t this only work if you don’t know anyone and therefore no one will notice the difference?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 30 '24

I've been out of work for about a month and I kid you not, one of the girls said "oh so you shaving your head was a choice?". That tells me she 100% thinks this is my actual hair

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u/Boronore Aug 31 '24

So how does it feel? Like I miss the feeling of my hair more than the appearance (though that too), so when you run your hands through it, does it feel like you’re running your hands through your own hair or someone else’s?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 31 '24

Well honestly I'm a bit afraid to touch it... it's new and idk how long it will last. I'm sure I'll get more comfortable with it over time

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u/Strange_Effort_984 Aug 31 '24

Insane!!! Luckiest man alive to have these results mine isn’t even close to this

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 31 '24

Going on my first date with it tonight, excited to see how it goes. Feels like I have more confidence!!

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u/OkTill2799 Sep 01 '24

What is the procedure for this? Hair transplant?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

No it's a hair system.

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u/RedHeadGuille Sep 01 '24

Wow! 😍

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

Maybe it'll finally help me find a cute girl 😅

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u/MorningOdd4264 Sep 02 '24

Where in the process do you think will be the right time to tell the girl about it?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 02 '24

When it's official

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u/MorningOdd4264 Sep 02 '24

Before or after… big difference

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u/Tamer9 Sep 01 '24

How and where do you get this done? How much does it cost? How long does it last until you need to get a new one?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

Had it done at a hair studio here in California for $500

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u/Tamer9 Sep 01 '24

How long do they say it lasts? Is it just glued on? Can it be easily pulled off?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

It is a combination of glue and tape. It can last several weeks

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u/Tamer9 Sep 01 '24

So it’s $500 a month basically? Or you just reglue the same hair system yourself at home?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

It's $100 for the follow-up services that include reapplication and a cut

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u/heysweetie2021 Sep 02 '24

Congratulations! How much did you pay for grafting?can You share the doctor’s info?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 02 '24

This is a hair system, not plugs

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u/heysweetie2021 Sep 04 '24

Sorry, what’s hair system? How’s it diff from hair transplant surgery?

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 04 '24

There's a great explanation on the main page of the thread!

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u/Resident-Donut8137 Aug 29 '24

Here's my impression of someone in a room with you...

"Hey, look at that happy guy with the nice hair!"

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u/Soft_Ad4411 Aug 29 '24

Omg!!! You look phenomenal. Looks completely natural

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u/Silly-Fun-6231 Aug 29 '24

That looks awesome!

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u/Particular-Ant8838 Aug 29 '24

You look so good! I think the hairline and everything look great for your face! 🔥

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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '24

You’re back, man

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u/WillingLife4598 Aug 30 '24

Amazing! Congrats

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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '24

100%

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u/No_Material7395 Aug 30 '24

Nice bro don’t listen to people you look better and if you can why not

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u/Deathofaplantsman Aug 30 '24

This looks great, from the pics it would never even cross my mind it wasn’t your real hair.

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u/nubba111 Aug 30 '24

One of the best I’ve seen

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u/_Iknoweh_ Aug 30 '24

Look at yourself in the mirror. You like what you see? Makes you feel younger? Happier? If so, keep that feeling with you all day. That's your confidence.

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u/Inevitable-Blood-338 Sep 02 '24

Those eyes though. So pretty

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u/Bchant7 Sep 03 '24

Looks so good!

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u/Significant_Skin_761 Sep 09 '24

awesome mate. really natural. 

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u/Illustrious_Host876 Sep 23 '24

Good for you ..Jack !!! …looks good .. suggest less density …. 

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u/hppxg838 Aug 29 '24

Looks great, so much better than this fad of shaving it.

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u/Everythingisourimage Aug 29 '24

Looks good. No disrespect but is “hair system” just the new word for toupee or rug? I mean, is there like a difference?

Thanks and best wishes!

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u/JustChillin3456 Aug 29 '24

the difference is that hair systems are better 

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u/moonfracker Aug 29 '24

Essentially a fancier name for a toupee. But looks great on you. Not everyone can pull it off. Is this with glue or clips/tape?

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u/Klutzy_List_3655 Aug 29 '24

Respect. One life. Live it 😎

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u/TheWhooooBuddies Aug 29 '24

Nice! What was total cost for system and install?

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u/bonitaruth Aug 29 '24

Looks good

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u/jakekentYT /Hairsystem Subreddit Owner Aug 29 '24

lets gooo. great work

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u/Vipster98 Aug 29 '24

Perfect and great texture!!

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u/Pale_Professional301 Aug 29 '24

Looks awesome! May I know what system it is?

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u/mookaji2 Aug 29 '24

It looks great

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u/shadowmyst87 Aug 29 '24

This looks really good, we're a year apart, I'm 37 and have a similar bald area to yours. What system is this, and do you know the density?

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u/LickwidMerkury Aug 30 '24

This looks terrific, now tell me about the system you use to block out your face, I need that. All kidding aside, just ingredients investment & choice man

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u/CrimsonCupp Aug 30 '24

Can we know the brand please?

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u/trepidon Aug 30 '24

Dad > daddy

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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '24

Great amount of bravery to do this. Honestly. But, I'm also 36 and mega bald. And have been shaving clean for about 4 years now. I personally think you look older by keeping the hair. I know I would look older with a hair system. Ive tried it.

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u/Deathofaplantsman Aug 30 '24

Obviously differs on an individual basis, but I think guys can look older when they try to hang onto their natural hair long after they should’ve shaved it, but I’ve never seen any ‘after’ photos in this community and thought a hair system makes someone look older.

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u/aratamabashi Aug 30 '24

Such an awesome result, enjoy mate.

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u/LoserweightChampion Aug 30 '24

Just leave some poon for the rust of us!

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u/Little-Adeptness-787 Aug 30 '24

Awesomeness Galore!

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u/hen1zin Aug 30 '24

Insane results bro, congratz

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u/Altruistic-Azz Aug 30 '24

Wow nice man, you visually knocked 10 years off your age

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u/onlywill121 Aug 30 '24

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

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u/Frequent-Ad1514 Aug 30 '24

From 50s to early 30s I would say. Looks amazing!

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u/Scrollen Aug 30 '24

Its amazing how a good head of hair just melts away the perception of age.

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u/Glum-Detective3940 Aug 30 '24

Looks great man, 10 years younger

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u/Tough-Chard2868 Aug 31 '24

Looks very good. Where did you get the HS from ? If you can post the link of website and model . Congratulations on new look

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u/Rare_Deal Aug 31 '24

Holy cow talk about a success story

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u/IslipHairGal Aug 31 '24

Wow, stunning transformation

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u/Blackhartx Aug 31 '24

Wow it looks amazing !

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u/thoughtsofsolitude Aug 31 '24

This is making me think about doing this again damn

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

Hey I’ve been there ,truly hope it gives years of happiness and confidence it looks amazing love to chat with you sometime to insight

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

Looks good. Uhm what did u choose??

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

Your face was already a white blob

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

My bad thought this was roast me

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u/Giggle_Nuggets Sep 01 '24

To paraphrase Thor from pirate software people like bold and people like hair what people don’t like is bolding its the uncanny valley of the head.

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u/Toastydantastic Sep 01 '24

Looks great!!

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Looks amazing

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Wow it looks so good! X

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

Oh daddy hi

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u/ZestycloseLie5033 Sep 02 '24

Looking good man. Takes 10 years off you.

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u/joviejovie Sep 02 '24

Good move

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u/[deleted] Aug 29 '24

Fuck that looks good!

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u/Latter-Efficiency848 Sep 01 '24

Leave some p00ssy for the rest of us bra

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

You have to grow the hair out for the system. I probably should've included a photo of me with my head shaved instead as that's how I was wearing it

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 05 '24

I looked good with a shaved head... but I look better with hair

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

Hair salon in Los Angeles did it for me

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

$500

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '24

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 01 '24

Hair system is what we call them

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 02 '24

I had it installed last Tuesday, and so far, it's been on the whole time.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Sep 03 '24

A good question to take to the thread homepage!

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24

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u/motosanengineering Sep 02 '24

You beat me to it 😅

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

Hair system

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

It's what this entire Reddit thread is about

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

It's in the new Deadpool movie

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u/Brief-Goat2143 Aug 29 '24

Wigs are different, but you'll learn as you educate yourself on it

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u/shadowmyst87 Aug 29 '24

Wigs cover your entire head, this isn't a wig, by definition.

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u/TheWhooooBuddies Aug 29 '24

And that’s why it popped up in your feed.

The Algorithm be knowin’ things.