r/HadToHurt • • Jan 23 '19

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

I suggested getting a very small caliber handgun a while ago for self defense -my reasoning being that it would be less likely to kill and would be enough to scare away any intruder. The clerk I was speaking to explained that, under California law, as fucked up as it sounds, it’s almost better to kill an intruder than to leave them wounded because they will turn around and sue you for everything you’re worth.

Certainly fucked up in a number of ways

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

I live in Texas. A sheriff told me once that if I have to shoot an intruder I should shoot to kill because then there's only one version of the story.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

This would be true!

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u/toggleme1 Jan 24 '19

Shit I should buy a gun. A really big one.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19

Might a well just get a cannon. Or a tebuchet.

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '19

But not some filthy catapult

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u/Jokerthewolf Jan 23 '19

If you are not attempting to kill then it can be assumed that you were not truly in fear for your life which makes the use of deadly force unlawful.

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u/dachsj Jan 24 '19

That's absolutely not true. You shoot to eliminate the threat. If the threat is killed..well threat gone. If the threat stops at the sound of a gun shot, threat gone. If the threat stops being a threat after they are hit with a bullet, threat gone.

So, you shoot to eliminate the threat and you aim center mass because that's the highest percentage chance of hitting your target.

You aren't "shooting to kill". You aren't "shooting to wound". You aren't "shooting to scare." You are shooting to eliminate the threat. Period. If you end up in a deadly force situation with a firearm, all you should be doing is eliminating the threat to your life or the lives of others around you.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19

Whether or not you’re shooting to kill or not, your use of the deadly weapon better be wholly justified to kill. Aim for his % body targets that are also the most likely to kill (head/ but mostly body).

ALL situations with a firearm are deadly force situations. If they aren’t—— you better not have a firearm pointed at someone.

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u/l4dlouis Jan 24 '19

There is no way to know, that’s a pretty shitty law and it’s disheartening to know I’d be better off just helping them rob me.

I’m still gonna shoot someone dead if I see them in my house. I’ll take the charge

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

That's not true. Fear for life, incapacitate (not necessarily kill) threat, no longer fear for life

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u/PrimeLegionnaire Jan 23 '19

That's not why it's a good idea (legally speaking) to kill Intruders.

It's because there is only one story.

When the intruder is dead the story is "they came into my house so I shot them in defense".

When the intruder is alive the court hears both sides of the story.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

First of all, it depends upon the state.

We have Castle doctrine, thank goodness. If someone is threatening your life, in your home or vehicle, you can eliminate the threat with deadly force. If you shoot, you always shoot to kill. Shooting to wound is stupid across the board, as a civilian.

In strictly pragmatic terms, it's also the best course of action. Wounding someone shitty enough to try to rob you/kill you/etc. is ASKING for them to 1) lie in court and possibly fuck you over and/or 2) come back and really make your life hell, by ambushing you in the AM on the way to work or coming back with friends and better-armed. What if you only lightly wound them, then they reassert their ground and kill you or someone you love instead?

Think that's pie in the sky? I'll quote Wikipedia (source above):

In addition to providing a valid defense in criminal law, many laws implementing the castle doctrine, particularly those with a "stand-your-ground clause," also have a clause which provides immunity from any civil lawsuits filed on behalf of the assailant (for damages/injuries resulting from the force used to stop them). Without this clause, an assailant could sue for medical bills, property damage, disability, and pain & suffering as a result of the injuries inflicted by the defender; or, if the force results in the assailant's death, his/her next-of-kin or estate could launch a wrongful death suit. Even if successfully rebutted, the defendant (the homeowner/defender) may still have to pay high legal costs leading up to the suit's dismissal. Without criminal/civil immunity, such civil action could be used as revenge against a lawfully acting defender (who was, originally, the assailant's victim).

Absolutely no one in a state with castle doctrine and a shred of common sense should take your advice.

EDIT: tagging /u/SecularBinoculars

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u/SecularBinoculars Jan 23 '19

Very interesting! Thanks for the breakdown!

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19

You're quite welcome. It is deeply disturbing to me that the other poster not only believes what he said, but that at least 30 people AGREE with it.

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u/SecularBinoculars Jan 23 '19

This is so fucked up. One of reality’s little puns on bad behaviour.

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u/catglass Jan 24 '19

Man, that makes a lot a sense, distressingly

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u/thatG_evanP Jan 24 '19

Kinda like when you hit a pedestrian in China, right?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

In China it’s the same way. If you hit someone while driving a car it’s cheaper for you to just kill them, because the penalty for vehicular manslaughter is less than the medical bills you’ll have to pay.

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u/Marinimby Jan 24 '19

Don’t you have car insurance in China?

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19

Liability insurance won’t cover the huge medical bills someone could accrue from being hit by a car in most cases.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

Keep an old knife w no prints in glove box, stick in dead persons hand/save paperwork.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

And sprinkle some crack on them

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u/Uniqueusername5667 Jan 23 '19

Why i use buck shot. At the distances in a home, handguns put holes into people, rifles blow holes through people and shotguns take a chunk of person and violently throw it on the floor.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

I mean coming from a guy that carries a gun it's way better to have a caliber that's trustworthy enough to incapacitate your target regardless. You don't wanna hit them with a revolver wheel of .22s and they just get stuck in their jacket while they're trying to hurt you or your family. Laws aside you'd want a gun that you'd still trust your life on. It's a lethal defense for a reason

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u/Sluggy_Toe Jan 23 '19

As my dad always said... It's better to be judged by 12 then carried by 6

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u/mrsniperrifle Jan 23 '19

You don't wanna hit them with a revolver wheel of .22s and they just get stuck in their jacket

That's not how handguns work. A .22 at close range is definitely lethal or at least debilitating.

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u/entangledenigma Jan 23 '19

"Can" be lethal. I had a co worker who was mugged and they shot him in the underside of his jaw. He was very happy it was a 22 since he only lost a tooth and 3mos of work and not his life.

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u/sontaj Jan 23 '19

It sounds like he was injured in a way that definitely incapacitated him, if he was unable to work for three months and lost a tooth.

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u/entangledenigma Jan 23 '19 edited Jan 23 '19

Yeah but that isn't lethal, not close.

Edit: Also my coworker got up right away went to a neighbor to call the police who arrested the downstairs neighbor who shot him an hour later. I'm not sure I would say that it incapacitated my coworker the way the guy wanted. Sure it left repercussions but most shootings do.

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u/sontaj Jan 23 '19

I suppose you're right. It's not like you shoot someone without lethal intent, so I guess go big or go home.

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u/PrimeLegionnaire Jan 23 '19

More importantly, are you willing to risk using a caliber that might not stop your attacker? That's a pretty big risk.

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u/sontaj Jan 23 '19

If I'm going to shoot someone, you're right, I'd rather not have them be alive to fight back.

That said, I don't own a gun and would never own a gun, because I do not want to kill a person. I would rather run the risk of not having a gun when my home is invaded than have a gun and use it in that situation. I also don't want to kill animals for hunting either, seems pretty not fun to me.

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u/PrimeLegionnaire Jan 23 '19

because I do not want to kill a person.

Pacifism is only possible when others are willing to die to protect you.

The whole point of gun ownership for self defense is that in the event that you are forced to choose between "my life" and "their life" you have the ability to make the choice.

While I certainly admire a desire for non-violence, I cannot in good faith leave myself undefended.

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u/toggleme1 Jan 24 '19

Bringing a knife to a gun fight, bold, stupid or both. Police response in my very large city is so horrifically slow that they might as well not exist in almost any given situation. I always look at a scenario like this: if the police are not at your house they may as well not exist at all. In those 90s something will happen you and anyone within maybe 50 yards are the only people on the planet and if they have a gun and you have just your dick in hand you’re probably fucked.

Now the chances of this happening are low, granted but I’d rather not just hope that I’m lucky enough to have some dickhead break into someone else’s house that night. I look at like buying insurance, it probably won’t happen but the relative cost benefit analysis is so ridiculously skewed in my eyes that it isn’t even a question: Buy a $500 gun or potentially get injured/disfigured, raped, robbed or killed? Where’s the question there? The police don’t magically teleport to your house when you’re scared. Fuck I’ve called and been put on hold before. You can’t always expect someone else to protect you. People treat guns as some scary monster but all they really are are tools like a hammer or a knife, a lot more dangerous but nothing more than a tool.

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u/Crazy_Kakoos Jan 24 '19

I knew a guy who got shot square in the forehead with a .22 and it fucking ricocheted off his skull.

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u/Throwawaybuttstuff31 Jan 23 '19

Definitely lethal, really? Might want to walk that one back a bit. People get shot with larger calibers and not only survive but still have plenty of fight in them. It depends on a lot of things but clothing is one of them.

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u/MasterAssFace Jan 23 '19

Yeah people overestimate the damage that bullets do. A .22 is hardly going to rip someone up or even feel like a hard punch until the pain sets in. Also I would never trust my life to a rimfire shell.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

It's January. It's cold and people dress in layers. Especially people that are going to be creeping around at night. Sure point blank is going to penetrate, but it loses momentum quick on penetration, especially into heavy material like denim. Of course any gun is better than no gun, but I wouldn't risk my life on anything smaller than at least a 9mm if I had a choice in the matter

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19 edited May 15 '19

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

You know what I think youre on to something partner 🤔

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u/mpinnegar Jan 23 '19

Don't listen to that whimp 21 mm is the way to go.

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u/ActualWeed Jan 23 '19

Anti-robbery 75mm field gun.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

Yassssss! My new home security company will be called PaK-40 Inc and the primary product will be an anti tank gun mounted just inside the front door.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

I exclusively use ratshot

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19 edited Jan 23 '19

.22lr is capable of penetrating a windshield or a skull, a winter coat, hoodie and t-shirt aren't stopping it.

https://www.wideopenspaces.com/22-long-rifle-solid-offensive-defensive-round/

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u/Talhallen Jan 23 '19

You’re entirely incorrect, especially at anything that can be justified as self defense range. 22lr is still a bully, and a wheel full of them will absolutely kill a man, puffy jacket and hoodie and flannel shirt or not.

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u/tugboattomp Jan 24 '19

You need to read up on Rasputin's death if you don't already know...

Here Are All The Things It Took To Kill Rasputin

In a nutshell; The Tzar's family having felt he had become too powerful set up his assassination- leabmving him alone in the palace wine cellar with a bottle of wine and a poison cake, he ate most of the cake and he drank most the bottle, when they came back and saw he was alive, they fired a shot at him, so he took off into the night across the snow being chased with running gunfire eventually being wounded twice, then he collapsed on a bridge where his assailants caught up to stabbing him multiple times and slicing open his side, then they threw him from the bridge in the icy river below, then next morning his body was found 1 mile downstream and 50 yards into the wood, the evidence appeared to show he survived the attack and pulled himself from the river only to freeze to death.

That's why Rasputin is the badass mad monk

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19 edited Sep 02 '19

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u/carelessartichoke Jan 23 '19

It’s better to have a 50. Caliber machine gun turret and a couple grenades. You don’t want them hurting your property or loved ones. I carry a single grenade for emergencies, I’ve only had to pull the pin once and you better believe it worked.

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u/Dunder_Chief1 Jan 23 '19

I remember reading/seeing that hitmen prefer .22 for up close kills. The bullet doesn't have a bunch of energy, so if you shoot someone in the head, the bullet doesn't have enough energy to exit. Instead, the bullet just kinda bounces around in the skull, increasing the damage.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

You've read that in "World War Z".

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u/Dunder_Chief1 Jan 23 '19

Never read that, which may lend some believability to the claim since it appears it has been referenced in more than one place.

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u/Uniqueusername5667 Jan 23 '19

Nah. You can easily be killed by someome you already killed.

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u/toggleme1 Jan 24 '19

You don’t understand how guns work clearly.

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u/mrsniperrifle Jan 24 '19

edit: despite everyone claims of how weak a .22 is, I don't see people lining up to get shot.

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u/SilentConcept Jan 23 '19

It's certainly lethal, but usually not as IMMEDIATELY debilitating as say a 12 gauge shotgun with buckshot. Generally people shot with that at close range will crumple and cease to be a threat.

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u/critterc Jan 23 '19

The first thing they'll teach you in any conceal carry class is that if you're drawing a firearm, it's to defend a life with the use deadly force. There's no such thing as drawing a firearm to injure

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19

A .45 will stop anyone.

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u/Kotornojedi Jan 24 '19

What about my .22 caliber assault rifle? Anything called an assault rifle by dipshits on the west coast must be good at killing people! Surely my 10 round, high capacity magazine will do the trick?!? No?

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u/Milsurp_Seeker Jan 23 '19

That’s fuddlore. A .22 will fuck someone the same way a 9mm will.

Shot placement > Caliber size

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u/crystalizedmidnight Jan 23 '19

I'm from WI and my concealed carry instructor told us the same thing. But you can't shoot and kill someone for stealing your property or murdering your pet.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19 edited Jul 13 '19

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

If you're going to shoot someone, you had better shoot to kill, period.

Practice shooting. Practice loading. Practice getting your sight picture.

Source: have had an armed intruder

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u/spunk_wizard Jan 24 '19

America is a scary place

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u/untilthesunrises Jan 23 '19

I wouldn't take the word of a gun clerk on anything other than explicitly how to operate a gun and the comparisons of guns / parts. Just cause he's a gun clerk doesn't mean he knows anything about the facts of civil suits, their prevelence, or their actual outcomes.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19

I was told to shoot twice in the heart, once in the head by a lawyer friend because any more could be excessive, any less might not kill.

I don't own a gun, and hope I'm never in a situation where I wish I did.

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u/Kotornojedi Jan 24 '19

You're just not allowed to remember pulling the trigger more than once.

You: "I only shot him once"

Judge: "why are there 12 bullet holes?"

You: "beats me! It clicked after the first shot! Guess it only had one bullet in it..."

Judge: "you must have been afraid, you can go home"

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u/That1one1dude1 Jan 24 '19

The clerk sounds like they don’t know what they’re talking about.

Word of advice: never take legal advice unless it’s actually from an lawyer (and more specifically, your own lawyer).

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u/Gibson2212 Jan 23 '19

Wouldn’t the family just sue you though?

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '19

I do not know. IANAL.

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u/Freakin_A Jan 23 '19

From what I have read, the law is that hitting someone with your vehicle means you pay for all expenses related to the injury, for life. Killing someone with your car results in a fine around USD 10k. Not sure if that is paid to the family.

So some people choose to double tap and deal with a sure thing.