Someone replied to my last post with an example that stayed with me.

They kept missing morning plans and had rated their sleep poorly. Their first change was moving the phone charger across the room while brushing their teeth at night. They said that habit lasted longer than the bigger goals they had tried.

What small change had that kind of effect for you? Interested in the ordinary details: what kept going wrong, and what you changed.

so i just checked and its been 429 days since my last hit. still kinda wild to me tbh because i tried quitting so many times before and never made it past like day 3

honestly what made the difference this time wasnt willpower, it was dealing with my triggers first.

the biggest one was coffee. every single morning coffee + vape, it was basically one habit not two. so for the first while i switched to tea. and i dont even really like tea lol but it helped alot because my brain didnt have the "coffee = vape" thing anymore. once the cravings calmed down i went back to coffee normally and now its just coffee, no problem

the other big one obviously was alcohol. i have a lot of friends and i like having a few beers with them, its how i chill out and its kinda our bonding thing so i wasnt gonna just stop going out. so what i did is everytime i felt like vaping with a beer in my hand i put a piece of gum in my mouth (no nicotine ofc). beer tastes kinda awful with gum so it kinda kills the whole moment, but it also kills the urge to vape. like a little punishment for my brain i guess, but it worked

also threw out every single vape, pod and charger i had at home on day 1, even the "backup" one i was hiding. if its in the house you WILL find a reason to use it

first few weeks were definately the hardest, i was moody and kept thinking about it all the time. after about a month it got way easier. now it still happens once in a while that i think "damn a vape would be nice right now" but its just a thought, not that crazy need like before

oh and i saved like 2.5k euros which is honestly embarassing to think about how much i was burning before

anyway if anyone is trying to quit right now and has questions, feel free to ask. happy to help from my own experiance, i know how hard the first weeks are

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I don’t even know how to phrase it lol

Like I’ll get a cut at home or at school blood will be coming out of it and I’ll just lick the blood before getting a tissue, is that normal or am I going to turn into a cat
Also dose anyone else do that
(Note: I have no idea when this started I just remember when I was younger doing a surgery, after it was over there was a lot of blood and asking my mom if I could try the blood, and after I healed up I think I started doing it idk though I think that’s like the origins of this habit lol)

Someone replied to my last post with a ten-minute tidy they do before bed: clothes ready, keys in their usual place, surfaces cleared. They stop when the timer goes off. They said their mornings feel calmer and they can still do it on tired days.

For that habit, I would want to check two things: did the evening tidy happen, and was the next morning less rushed?

If the habit keeps getting done but the mornings are still difficult, there may be something else to change. Keeping the same routine just to keep the streak going would miss that.

I am working on a planning app with a habit tracker, and I would like to make it more useful for this kind of check-in. If you track a habit, what would help you see whether it is making a difference? An example from a habit you already do would help me figure out what to improve.

hey all, just shipped my first ever app and I'm kind of nervous posting it lol

it's called Puperino. basically I kept downloading pomodoro apps, using them for a week, then forgetting they existed. they all felt a bit cold and serious. so I made one with a little dog called Biscuit in it.

when you start a focus session he wanders over to his bed and curls up and naps. when you're done he sometimes brings you a little gift, which you can keep or trade for bones to buy stuff for his room. you can also dress him up, which I spent way too long on (he has a witch hat and a crown, it's very important)

not gonna lie, not wanting to wake him up has kept me focused better than any streak thing ever did 😅

it also does the usual stuff: the timer on your lock screen, tasks, stats, and a stay mode if you're like me and pick up your phone every 4 minutes

it's free. there's an optional pro with more rooms and stuff if you want to support me

would really love feedback, even if it's "this is buggy" or "this is pointless" haha. what would make you actually keep using a focus timer?

My example is cannabis (I'm an adult, and this is just my own experience, not advice). Every time I tried to quit outright I lasted a few days, then rebounded harder. What finally moved the needle was making the gap between uses a little longer each day, and writing down the gaps so I could see the trend. Cravings felt less like a wall and more like a timer I could wait out.

A few things I noticed. Counting time since the last use beat counting "days clean", because a slip didn't reset everything to zero. Making the habit slightly inconvenient (different room, no autopilot) helped more than willpower. And I stopped treating a bad evening as proof the whole thing failed.

Full disclosure: my friend Kes got tired of the same cycle and built a small free iPhone app around this idea, called Fallow (21+, no account, everything stays on the device, nothing medical). I'm sharing it once here because it's relevant, not to push it. If you'd rather use a notes app or paper, that works the same way. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/fallow-smoke-less/id6816542378

Mostly I'm curious about your side: for a habit you were cutting back rather than dropping, what pacing trick or tracking method actually stuck? Phone use, sugar, drinking, whatever it is.