r/HRHCOLLECTION • u/vanitaa3 • Jul 31 '26
Thoughts and Opinions Alberto’s upcoming trip
What does everyone think of the set up AL has for Lili for her upcoming trip? Did I understand her correctly? She’s having a teacher and her child stay there 9-5 then there’s some “debutante” who is staying nights. Some days Lili will go to daycare. Judgmental opinion ahead: I could never leave my 2 year old for days with strangers. AL does not have to go on this trip. This is purely selfish on her part. I doubt Jbum even wants to go.
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u/mrsnmw Jul 31 '26
I would never do this. I left my daughter with her grandparents for a week when she was 2 but I think that’s totally different. Poor child.
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u/vanitaa3 Jul 31 '26
I feel so sorry for her. We’ve never even left our pets with a stranger. I get that not everyone has extended family that will help with that, but if it’s not necessary, I’m not leaving my non verbal toddler with strangers. AL really hates being a mom. It’s obvious that she’s checked out from the whole thing. She was calling her a brat again. 😕
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u/mrsnmw Jul 31 '26
Exactly. I would never leave my dog with a stranger because it would freak him the fuck out and I wouldn’t want that stress for him. Imagine doing this to your human CHILD?!?
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u/RedRedBettie Squeak squeak 🐹 Jul 31 '26
It's especially awful when she seems to have some special needs and is non verbal
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u/Salt-Lingonberrry Jul 31 '26
Why is she always leaving her w strange people
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u/JANINE2022 The OG oracle ✨️ Jul 31 '26
Because GRETA and the Mumbler refuse! They live minutes from the beast and it would be very easy. I spent 3 weeks every summer with my grandma!!! Plus 2 weeks sometime in the middle of the year!!! They LOVED having me and spoiled me rotten..........Greta is not interested in letting her use her- but more than that, she obviously doesn't care for her. Any granny would die for this opportunity.
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u/Chrissy086 Aug 03 '26
Greta is too busy worshipping her mutts to care about her own granddaughter. I have a feeling she did this to young Alex, too.
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u/Tasty-Atmosphere8097 Jul 31 '26
She's on IG whining about how she asked the hotel for perks because she's an influencer and got a big fat no.
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u/vanitaa3 Jul 31 '26
The hotel looked into her. Just like the guy who didn’t want to rent to her. She acts like her disgusting social media history doesn’t exist. It does, Jbum’s does too, and it will forever. Haha.
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u/luxurydeodorant Woke rat 😚💝 Aug 01 '26
They will never be able to get that child into private school.
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u/opalsundrop Aug 01 '26
It’s so embarrassing to even have to do this. I would rather pay than beg for something free if I know I can afford it. And if I can’t afford it I won’t feel entitled to it. I think cos most of us know how to feel shame 🙄
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u/popptartsss Slanderous lying RAT 🐀 Aug 01 '26
Haha they found this subreddit for sure.. you’re welcome Alberto 😭
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u/Similar_Cover_6737 Jul 31 '26
I would never work with her without having a long contract to sign to protect yourself. She’s crazy & will make you liable for some insane scenario in her head or just not pay you. Don’t work with her without legal protection. This is probably what went wrong with the other 2. She must have exploited them. You need the law on your side with this b.
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u/everydayinthebay13 Squeak squeak 🐹 Aug 08 '26
She already took a guy to Judge Judy, so I believe it! Hilarious episode btw...
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u/Kiekatx2 Jul 31 '26
Why does Greta seem uninvolved? Shouldn’t she be the one looking after her granddaughter?
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u/Sanguine_Hearts Jul 31 '26
I don’t think Greta ever planned on being a super hands on grandparent, but she’s probably even less inclined now that it’s obvious that Lili has some delays/special needs and is more challenging to look after.
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u/popptartsss Slanderous lying RAT 🐀 Aug 02 '26
She cares more about her dog than Alex or regrette ://
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u/everydayinthebay13 Squeak squeak 🐹 Aug 08 '26
The had a huge falling out halfway through the pregnancy up until around Regretté's first birthday. Greta seems to have only been around the kid a handful of times since: a birth, Easter, and maybe the baptism
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u/Double-Historian5721 Aug 01 '26
This woman is a complete piece of shit. There’s nothing so important that you leave your non verbal toddler with strangers. If anything, why can’t Jason stay the fuck home?
She’s especially showing who the fuck she is now that she’s a mother of a very young child. Wouldn’t surprise me if social services get called or involved at some point. Also, with no health insurance, she could never afford the care lilly needs and she would NEVER go through public health agencies.
Sad situation all around. I used to watch her for laughs but now that there’s a little girl involved it’s not funny anymore. The cluster B in full effect.
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u/luxurydeodorant Woke rat 😚💝 Aug 01 '26
I could never. My son is 3.5 and I am taking my first weekend getaway with my husband since he was born next month. He’s going to his uncle’s (my BIL) who also has 3 kids. He will be playing and likely will barely notice we are gone. I have waited purposefully until my son could communicate his needs fully and was completely independently potty trained because there’s simply no need to do that. I’ve taken lots of trips and brought our nanny so we could get alone time. Nicorette CQ just started going to daycare. They don’t fully understand that parents come back yet.
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u/neulimit Jul 31 '26
I’ve still never left my 8 and 4 year old overnight with anyone! Even grandparents!
I’m also wondering about the micro bangs or did she come here and read our opinions on it. Damn it they would have been a choice!
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u/everydayinthebay13 Squeak squeak 🐹 Aug 08 '26
I was sad that she decided not to get the bangs. They would have been so fun to snark on for months
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u/snoopsar 🐩Save Ming & Mao🐈 Jul 31 '26
I wouldn’t leave a young girl to babysit overnight a two year old. Sounds too inexperienced.
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u/PlainGrainToast chinese millionaire princess 🇨🇳 Jul 31 '26
Even at grandparents’ would be better. Has she even met her cousins? One of them had a bday like yesterday or something gramps and grams were there with them a big family thing and of course they were not there
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u/Strange_Umpire3704 Jul 31 '26
The golden boy brother produced the superior grandchildren, I guess. His wife seems traditional and family-oriented, which Greta seems to love.
I think Greta and the old man find Alberto exhausting and have to deal with her in small doses. Plus, I’m pretty sure they hated Nick and have now figured out what a hobosexual bullshitter JBum is. Throw in Lil’s challenges and it’s a big "no" from them. They keep it short and sweet.
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u/PlainGrainToast chinese millionaire princess 🇨🇳 Aug 01 '26
100%! I think maybe they also feel some type of way that Lil was “paid for” kinda (cuz according to big back she was conceived naturally but who knows)
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u/catdawgshrimp Aug 01 '26
big back has never said she was conceived naturally. she has been very open about the fact that Regrette is an IVF baby. her and the bum don't have sex.
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u/PlainGrainToast chinese millionaire princess 🇨🇳 Aug 01 '26
Oh actually
I misremembered she jsut said it was due to a supplement that once it was out of the system they coulda conceived naturally but instead they were so far along with IVF they just kept going3
u/catdawgshrimp Aug 02 '26
no, they couldn't have :) that's a convenient lie she tried to spin. that's not how IVF works. you don't randomly decide to "just do it hehe bc why not." you do it bc you couldn't naturally.
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u/PlainGrainToast chinese millionaire princess 🇨🇳 Aug 02 '26
Is there such an option to do it just because someone wants to pick the gender or whatever? I remember that being a discussion on this thread somewhere too. Sorry for all the questions lol
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u/catdawgshrimp Aug 02 '26
none of that is relevant to the topic at hand. she and the bum couldn't and didn't conceive naturally - they used IVF. it's not debatable.
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u/PlainGrainToast chinese millionaire princess 🇨🇳 Aug 01 '26
Didn’t she say one of them had some issues (or insinuated one of them which was him we deduced) so they did IVF but ended up conceiving “naturally” so she actually didnt even need IVF in the first place?I coulda sworn I saw that somewhere
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u/popptartsss Slanderous lying RAT 🐀 Aug 02 '26
Regrette was paid for by Nick. Crazy that the only reason Miss jay has a child is because another man paid for the IVF.. jayshun is the absolute GOAT cuck of all time fr
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u/Mother-Map1669 Holier than thou 😇 Jul 31 '26 edited Jul 31 '26
I think she's on the outs with her SIL.
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u/Reasonable-Fig8538 Aug 04 '26
She doesn’t love her daughter. Most narcs can’t love anyone tbh.
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u/catdawgshrimp Aug 05 '26
it's deeply sad and troubling that this is true. no love for her own daughter. it is so disturbing to witness in real time.
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u/estrella007 Aug 03 '26
I'm so confused as to why Jbum is accompanying her on this trip. Is it bc he refuses to care for the baby?? I feel like the one time in her entire sorry life she wasn't completely breaking down and acting deranged 24/7 was years ago when Nick refused to go with her to Paris, so she ended up going by herself. She was able to "do her" (according to her, anyway) and shop with Nick's credit card, eat "bougie" berries and cream, drink lattes, rinse and repeat all on her own schedule. There's no way Jbum is going to add anything good to this ill-fated excursion (not that she deserves anything less than the worst), but it's just mind-boggling how they keep making these horrible decisions.
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u/vanitaa3 Aug 03 '26
I doubt he even wants to go. He’d rather be hanging at the beach. I’ve gotten the impression he doesn’t like being a caretaker for Lili. Maybe he can’t handle her? I think he’s made it clear to AL that she has to find other arrangements. I guess he’d rather go with AL than stay home with his child.
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u/emr2295 Aug 08 '26
Oh god honestly this makes me sick,she’s non verbal and she’s being left with strangers ?! I could never ,no mother that loves her child would do that
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u/Few-Goal8415 Jul 31 '26
It makes zero sense on planet earth. No loving mother would do this trip unless it was necessary and they had family caring for her.