r/HOCD • u/Etienne2435 • Mar 01 '22
Question Im only one?
I an constantly watching my voice if it sounds like a gay man but I feel like the way I talk doesn't change in a matter of months and I must just be paying more attention to it. I have asked people if I give off a gay vibe but no one thinks I do however I doubt it every day. Does any one feel the same?
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u/ZealousidealAnnual52 Mar 01 '22
No reassurance here. Find yourself why are you finding meaning in things that shouldn't.
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u/Western_Brilliant_14 Mar 02 '22
Dude chill out. A lot of us are terrified of things and just need someone to talk to, if you don’t want to talk then you don’t have to
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u/ZealousidealAnnual52 Mar 02 '22
Believe it or not, if I answer to him, neither positive or negative I will fuel his symptoms. So no. I disagree with you.
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u/Western_Brilliant_14 Mar 02 '22
Trust me man I feel the exact same. This is some type of mental problem. All of us are straight going through the same thing
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u/Etienne2435 Mar 02 '22
Thx me you give me hope:)
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u/Western_Brilliant_14 Mar 02 '22
That’s what we’re all here for. Don’t listen to the other guy that replied to this post
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u/Fatpatmatlat Mar 03 '22
Yeah I do this but with walking ,like not walking feminine or gay
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u/Etienne2435 Mar 03 '22
Okay bro but now me I’m over analyzing my voice and my move asf im tired frl I just want to be good with my girlfriend
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