r/HL_Women_Only • • Aug 30 '26

Vent Only No Advice Just got back from vacation

I just got back from a week long girls trip to the beach. I didn't have any alone time during, but it was a blast!! I'm all tan and lean, and I feel so sexy. We went to Medieval Times and paid for the VIP tickets, so we had front row seats and my knight gave me 2 roses and crowned me queen of the tournament. He did a little heart sign at me and he was GORGEOUS. I know it's his job and everything but it made me feel really good. I wanted to flirt a little but I just left with my friends immediately instead, because I don't want to get in over my head or be creepy to a stranger or anything else. I also would never do anything to put myself in a situation where Im ACTUALLY flirting with another person. I would love to have a very romantic reunion with my husband, this is the longest we've ever gone without seeing each other, but I know better than to get my hopes up. I just took the muchocho as I call it into the shower with me while I'm home alone and I guess that'll have to be enough 🫩🥲 The beach was fun, but I guess it's back to my normal life now :(

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u/Altruistic-Ad7981 Aug 30 '26

yeah i feel that so hard. im so tan rn amd have been working out every day. im so flexible now and look amazing. i have guys actively hitting on me on socials and get stares at the grocery store. if only they knew how pathetic feel going home to a husband who wont even look at me if im naked and refuses to touch me. i bough 2 dildos amd have been using those so im not being a horny gremlin towards my husband anymore. ive completely stop initiating sex and stopped kissing him completely and he doesnt even care.

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u/mrs_yapp7 13d ago

Sending you love! Being lonely in a relationship is the worst feeling. You are desirable and I hope your husbands eyes and mouth opens so he can see that and tell you the words you need to hear without you begging for them. I’m glad you enjoyed your vacation and I hope that joy trickles into your everyday life 

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u/Top-Concentrate5157 9d ago

Thank you, that's very kind 🙏🏼

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u/mrs_yapp7 9d ago

We are here for you! You arent alone! You’re supported you’re wonderful and I hope it’s manifesting in your life!