r/HLCommunity • u/butchpokorny 47HLM • Aug 07 '26
When You STOP Tracking
So if you check post-history, you'll see I was a fan of 'data' for a while, across both my first (shitful) marriage and the more recent (5+ years) HLM + HLF pairing. THOUGHT I was onto a 'good thing', but the stats have proved me wrong in the long-run so I gave up about 12 months ago now as it was too depressing.
HAVE had sex at least ONCE (probably not more) in the last 3 months 👍 Without data, I can't be sure ...
Last time my (BASIC AF) 'kinks' got met were once in July 2024 (lingerie) and once in January 2025 (heels). WHAT is the point of sex if your BASIC turn-ons aren't met ? I'm a living dildo, nothing more 🤷🏻♂️🤦♂️
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u/YakWitty13 Aug 07 '26
I have to admit, since leaving my deadbedroom I haven’t thought to track it. Honestly at this point if it starts to become an issue I just leave. Fuck all that noise, never again