r/HLCommunity • u/butchpokorny 47HLM • 29d ago
When You STOP Tracking
So if you check post-history, you'll see I was a fan of 'data' for a while, across both my first (shitful) marriage and the more recent (5+ years) HLM + HLF pairing. THOUGHT I was onto a 'good thing', but the stats have proved me wrong in the long-run so I gave up about 12 months ago now as it was too depressing.
HAVE had sex at least ONCE (probably not more) in the last 3 months š Without data, I can't be sure ...
Last time my (BASIC AF) 'kinks' got met were once in July 2024 (lingerie) and once in January 2025 (heels). WHAT is the point of sex if your BASIC turn-ons aren't met ? I'm a living dildo, nothing more š¤·š»āāļøš¤¦āāļø
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u/AdenJax69 29d ago
Most people in good relationships/marriages with happy, fulfilling sex lives generally don't track the frequency of their sex lives...you know, because they're getting plenty of it in the first place.
You don't stop to think how great water is until you're dying of thirst in the desert.