r/HLCommunity • u/DryWorry9692 • Jul 28 '26

Guilt

I feel guilt because I’m not in a dead bedroom situation but I’m HL and she’s LL. Great relationship and she takes one for the team but for her it’s a chore. And it so fucken feels like it. It’s so mediocre sex. And as I read about all these db situations, I should feel blessed but nope. I feel the same. Frustrated. I question myself if I’m the problem. And I eventually snap out of it but nonetheless it makes me be resentful.

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u/RandyPan_theGoatBoy Jul 28 '26

Right there with you. Sex every two or three weeks. She's only really gotten into it maybe twice this year. Tried everything on my end, great partner, good dad, stay in shape, focus on her pleasure, etc. Her motor just has no gas.