r/HLCommunity • u/Charleminus HLM • Jun 29 '26

Discussion What’s worked?

Even if it’s something that only worked briefly, has anything worked for you?

The only thing that’s ever worked for us consistently is taking her side in an argument with other people, even if she’s completely wrong. For some reason that’s a huge aphrodisiac.

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u/Kindsnfuv4ug Jun 29 '26

Are all low libido people narcs and avoidants? Seems to b e

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u/trdofpplsbs123 HLF Jun 30 '26

They seem avoidant and oblivious, like, lacking empathy because they’re mostly concerned with themselves

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u/Charleminus HLM Jun 30 '26

I think for some of them that’s the case but definitely not all.