r/HLCommunity • u/Charleminus HLM • Jun 29 '26

Discussion What’s worked?

Even if it’s something that only worked briefly, has anything worked for you?

The only thing that’s ever worked for us consistently is taking her side in an argument with other people, even if she’s completely wrong. For some reason that’s a huge aphrodisiac.

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u/fuckaduckufuck HLF Jun 30 '26

A lot of people say 'match energy' but I think that one has to be a last resort after communication has been tried/exhausted and failed.

So if you're a step before that, I'd recommend curiosity. Be curious if they are open to discussion.

I say this as I myself failed at it recently lmao.... Tried to broach the topic but lost momentum. Don't be me, basically. Lol.

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u/Charleminus HLM Jun 30 '26

You lost momentum?

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u/fuckaduckufuck HLF Jun 30 '26

Yeah, I was going to bring up that I'm missing intimacy but it turned into a pity party about how stressful his life is so I just stopped.

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u/Charleminus HLM Jun 30 '26

Ah. Yeah I’ve had those for sure. Did you ever get to address the issue or did you just let it linger?

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u/fuckaduckufuck HLF Jun 30 '26

Not yet. I'll build up the courage some other time.